Weed is not unethical. It is not wrong or a problem. Reasons people do not do weed are personal, and I can respect these. I don't do weed because i can not get, nor can I afford it. I understand others simply do not like it, and that is reason enough to not do it or not allow it in their home or property, that i respect and understand. The problem is when people try to stop others from doing weed. We can all agree that if hiiro smoked a bunch of weed and caught on fire and died, our lives would have little to no change. Likewise, if he smoked weed and said he smoked weed, our lives would have little to no change. The reasons for you trying to stop him from smoking weed are completely selfish and based on your dislike for the drug. I could say that playing the guitar is a stupid waste of time, and that the guitar is stuff. Your first response would be "it's fun and the people I play with like it." well, that can be said with weed. You don't smoke around people who don't like weed, and you don't at guitar with people who hate guitar. I guess you do if you're an starfish but that's beyond the point. My point is everyone is entitled to their own form of enjoyment, as long as it doesn't harm anyone else, and while suggesting other alternatives is great, forcing someone to stop because of personal beliefs is plain selfish and all around rude. In no way do I mean this to be rude, this is simply to express my opinion on the subject and the argument at hand.