Author Topic: Wanting to ask a girl out...  (Read 1476 times)

So basically, remember my first thread on that the girl I liked was already on a relationship, well it's on the verge of breaking. Won't go on the exact details, but let me just say the guy she was dating played spin the bottle with some other girls, and he stated he wanted to break up with her. SHe doesn't want to break up with him, but you know what happens happens. Now, what do? Do I ask her out a week later, or just help her cope with the break-up and then later ask her out?

Comfort her

and then get to know her mom

get back to me when you're done


Yeah, comfort her if you want to be seen as a mushy friend.

Wait a while after her relationship breaks.  Then make a move.

Let her know that you have obvious feelings for her, but don't make a move. Tell her that you respect her enough that you're not going to burden her with a relationship while she's going through a bad break-up, bur let her know you're there for her whenever.


Let her know that you have obvious feelings for her, but don't make a move. Tell her that you respect her enough that you're not going to burden her with a relationship while she's going through a bad break-up, bur let her know you're there for her whenever.
That sounds too weird.  That puts her in an awkward situation as she gets through things.

act like you're too good for her

edit: say "i think its cute when people ___" to things she does


Rebound relationships generally end as soon as the person gets over their temporary insecurities.

Weren't you saying a while ago your parents wouldn't let you go out with someone who isn't indian, or something along those lines?

Yeah, comfort her if you want to be seen as a mushy friend.

Wait a while after her relationship breaks.  Then make a move.

this there's nothing more I can say