I think what most nerdy/antisocial kids think is someone being a jerk is just someone poking fun or play-teasing a girl, which most normal guys do.
this, or stocking's explanation. I've experienced both.
A stereotypical nerd is someone who wears suspenders and thick rimmed glasses, has a lisp, and is so socially awkward he can't even talk to his mom right.
I think you're confusing being a nerd and nerdy behavior.
but I thought a nerd was defined by nerdy behavior :u
guess not, according to google