Yelling stops after the first week or so of basic. Then it's only when you forget up.
Also, Visage... dropped records are still accessed by recruiters. They literally see everything. At MEPS I went through bloodwork, fingerprinting, and about 3,346 social security verifications. They sent all that off for a FBI background check.
However, the Army might be able to sign a waiver. The Air Force stopped giving out waivers. :/