I can't drink properly to get drunk.

[fred da kiko]

so, the story begins with me meeting up with this beautiful single girl. It was at a, let's call it a "hangout". Girl fits me like a glove. She listens to metal (same favorite band, same favorite songs), watches the same animes and watched the same ones, plays video game and roleplaying games (board game), atheist, hating humankind (can't explain that properly, doesn't matter anyways) and so on.
we met last weekend and she instantly invited me over to her the other day (Wednesday to be honest). We had some nice chit chats, she played some songs on her piano (god damn it she played the song of storms while chatting with me and not even looking at the piano 3/4 of the time) and.. yeah we had a funny day.

SO. Dear whoda's not sure if they are now in the friend zone or still in the "meeting" zone. whoda hasn't had a girlfriend for over 3 years now and she actually never had a boyfriend at all.

and I'm back there where I was, being a cheap little idiot who's paying (lets say 40$) so I can actually meet with her (driving to her and back home = 3h) even though I don't even loving know how she thinks about me.
and since whoda can't be assed to feel any emotions that make him sad, unhappy and whatsoever he actually just wants to drink and ignore everything negative and look forward to today evening where I'm going to pay 40$ again to meet her.

Yeah. Really. I'm just stupid. I could ask her out but it's too loving soon and she never had a boyfriend before. I don't know when's the right time. This stuff is eating me inside up and I want it to go away. How I hate such situations.

heh....

anyway, instead of drinking away emotion, ponder them and become a deeply disturbed sociopath.

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[LoserHero]

Why would you jump straight into a relationship and even more prematurely, assume love? Just ask her to a date. If she says no then bam, no more wasted time. If she says yes then now you know she's interested. Put away the booze and grow a pair.

[Ningyou]

Age: 18

Y u drinking.

Because in most of Europe you're allowed to drink at 18.

Also it's weird, because I've been having that recently as well after I drank tequila. Now everything alcoholic seems to be gross to me and it's making me wanna throw up.

[Daedalus]

Because in most of Europe you're allowed to drink at 18.

that was already SETTLED OK MARIA

[lordician]

Why would you jump straight into a relationship and even more prematurely, assume love? Just ask her to a date. If she says no then bam, no more wasted time. If she says yes then now you know she's interested. Put away the booze and grow a pair.

I guess this is the best idea.

Drinking isn't the way to solve this... 'problem'.

[Stocking]

Also it's weird, because I've been having that recently as well after I drank tequila. Now everything alcoholic seems to be gross to me and it's making me wanna throw up.

Eh I don't do tequila anymore, but I got that feeling with coffee once where I couldn't bring myself to drink it because the very sight of it was nauseating.


And I can relate to OP. There was a long time where I had to choose between getting drunk off my ass and passing out in my bed, or staying up all night crying to myself.

[King Leo]

Don't drink away your problems. That's just stupid. And expensive.
Release that negative energy some other way. I suggest working out. That way you'll forget about your troubles AND you become buff --> more girls for you.

[Tom Gunn]

I'm having emotional issues!

Better go drink myself silly.

[Ningyou]

Drinking when you feel down is nice. I see no problem with it. Of course you shouldn't do it every day, but y'know.