Opinions on how to deal with lying friends

[Destroyer]

I normally hate coming here to vent but I'm currently really loving pissed off an felt maybe I should get some advice.

Everyone has that group of friends they always hang out with. The group of people you can make anything fun when your with. For the past months me and this group of people have pretty much hung out every night. We go everywhere to do stuff, even if its just some store we find some way to make it fun. We stay out until like midnight every weekend. Tonight I had an emergency services class until 7:30. After that I texted multiple people from this group and asked if anything was going on. I pretty much got no's from everybody giving excuses such as they have homework or needed to go somewhere. So I just went home.

For about half of the time I was at class and up until this all started I was texting one of the girls from the group. She just talked about how she was doing homework, at the time I had no idea she was just playing along with a lie. I was sitting with my laptop looking through Facebook when I saw a status from one of the people come up saying "Never a dull moment with the group :)" So I texted the person who made the status which went like this:

Me: So nothing ever happened tonight?
Her: Nope
Me: You sure about that?
Her: Why
Me: Cause I feel like everyone did something
Her: What makes you say that
Me: Because I do, be honest, did you guys?
Her: No

After a bit more questioning she admitted that everyone from the group hung out the whole night. The conversation goes on and on but the point is that about half of the people lied and kept up with the lying for hours simply to keep me away. I honestly felt completely betrayed, I still do. People who are supposed to be your best friends all turned out to be a bunch of lying starfishs.

I really don't know what to think. Since we have gotten so close they are pretty much the only people I hang out with so its pretty much just like I'm left with no one to trust. They have never done anything like this before. Right now I seriously just want to loving kick them out of my life but making decisions while angry never helps. I don't know what to think.

What do you guys think? Should I just stop associating with them, am I overreacting? I just need opinions.

[Ad Bot]

[Clone v.117]

Break their faces.

I don't think you should stop associating with them or anything, but that doesn't mean you can completely forgive them for making such a richard move, just try and play it off and make it so they will want you there more, in the mean time just hope they were planning a surprise party for you.

[Kilser]

Stop talking to them, move on and show that you haate every single on of them lmfao. Then from there, go on and destroy each and every single one. Not with violence as of yet, that comes after they hate you.

[duke 838]

That's a really stuffty move on their part, I wouldn't talk to douche bags like that.  

[BBOY]

If they are your friends stay low for a while, they might come to you.
If not find another group.
Or got to a bar anually.

Theres always someone fun at the bar.

[slimabob]

Try to figure out why they didn't want you to know, and work from there.

[Messes]

Stop associating with them, don't communicate with them what-so-ever.

See how they react to this, whether they start begging you to come back and apologizing, or if they don't care at all. That should be a give away of what to do next and help you out

[Darkness ZXW]

>Go to group
>Lift up knee
>Extend knee
>Point toes up while you thrust forward into their face
>Re-chamber your knee
>Set knee down
>Repeat
>???
>No more "friends".

[Destroyer]

I definitely plan on avoiding them for awhile. Problem is I honestly don't know how quickly I'll forgive them. I don't trust people easy, and once someone or a group goes and betrays that trust it doesn't really come back.

[._maxwell23461_.]

take a ARO TO DUH NEE
Say to them, are you liying?

[Destroyer]

take a ARO TO DUH NEE
Say to them, are you liying?

I already know they were lying, they all have been caught in the act.

Now comes the question of if I want to put up with their stuff again.

[Jacky]

Maybe you should destroy them. 

[SpreadsPlague]

friends that lie to you aren't really your friends.

[Destroyer]

friends that lie to you aren't really your friends.

Whats funnier is when they try to justify the lying with stupid reasons.

[Firecycle]

Stop associating with them for a while.