This message is for Gloss: I have a personal policy to never say anything on-line that i would not say in RL. There is so much abusive chat in forums. I will never be a part of that. Anyway, I want to say that you have a very real concern. Allot of times, I'm playing in my own server, and I don't look at the chat as much as I should. For that I apologise. I knew that there was some stupid things going on, but not to the extent that you mentioned. I personally hate going in servers, and getting kicked for no reason. To make sure that none of that happens, I have downloaded an add-on that enables me to restrict the banning and kicking to host only (me). Please accept my humble apology, and I hope to see you in my server again. If not, then I totally understand.
-Hafnium