aladdin: girl escapes from her house to go out with a robber
cinderella: girl was sent to clean her house but instead she went to a party
nemo: fish disobeys his dad then gets kidnapped.
snowwhite: girl invites 7 men to her house.
That's really only half the story.
aladdin: girl escapes from her house to go out with a robber
She didn't intend to go out with a robber, she met a "commoner" who she thought was attractive. He then decided to try to go out with her disguised as a prince.
cinderella: girl was sent to clean her house but instead she went to a party
A party she was supposed to attend as was royally decreed. Not to mention that her stepmother was abusive and didn't have any right to make her clean the house.
nemo: fish disobeys his dad then gets kidnapped.
But instead of getting mad at his son for disobeying, he travels a long way just to find him in an act of love.
snowwhite: girl invites 7 men to her house.
It's not her house, it's the 7 "men's" (dwarfs). She simply stumbles upon it and asks to stay there because her stepmom is trying to kill her.