what exactly is the problem?
like, why are you depressed?
if you want to prevent people from abusing trust you give them, them don't give them any
don't trust people with anything important, whether that's a secret, a task, or whatever
I don't, not for real
the only people I actually trust with anything are some of the people here
not on any other forums, or anywhere else though
what do you mean asperger's got put into the equation?