tbh it's kinda sad when something dominates your life so much that you have to have it everywhere at all times and define yourself as part of some non existant group as opposed to most people who are just people
this isn't an insult, by the way. this is what my head just told me when I thought about it. (this does not mean that I don't want to talk about it)
but ofc, more often than not you should just leave people to do their business as they see fit anyway.