I need to do some ranting, so if you aren't interested, you might as well just exit out of the topic. As some of you may have seen, yesterday was my birthday. I had work but after that I went out all night with friends. I had so much fun but when I got home I saw something that pissed me off.
Awhile ago I made a topic on how I was fighting with a close group of friends. Since then we all made up for maybe 2 weeks but something happened again. This time though I didn't end up fighting the whole group, just 2 of them. So yesterday I invited a bunch of really close friends to go bowling then out to eat. I basically hang out with two seperate groups of friends. So I invited everyone from my one group (the one I have no problems with) and most of the people from my other group. Two of the people I completely left out, the two who would constantly start stuff with me.
One of the people I left out is named Jake. Along with my most his close friends who I invited, I also invited his brother and his girlfriend, both of which I'm close friends with. I guess he didn't like this very much.
I came home to seeing the posts on facebook:
"Being alone is better than breaking faces"
and
"Some people just have no respect..."
It really pissed me off how even on my loving birthday these two dumbasses still attempt to start stuff. I'm never one to hold grudges and I would have invited the two, or at least felt bad about invited all their close friends and not them, if it wasn't for the stuff they had done to me.
Basically, two weeks ago my friend Kayla left to go stay in North Carolina with her sister for a month. She was hanging out with the rest of the group; Jarrad, Jake, and Taylor. At the time I was cool with everyone so I texted Jarrad asking if anything was going on, he said nobody was doing anything so I texted Kayla asking if she wanted to hangout. She replied saying Jarrad told her to come hangout, so I followed her car to see what was going on. When I got there Jarrad and Jake both left and me, in a rage, texted Jarrad calling him out on his bullstuff. He replied:
Because we didn't wanna loving see you tonight, me jake taylor and kayla were all gonna talk and we didnt want you there and you have to keep loving pushing it, learn to loving stop and just go home for once.
I then got a text from Jake saying:
Stop being a little loving prick and take the hint noone wants you around. Nobody may say it to your face but its true.
He repeats that line a few more times. After releasing the texts those two said to everyone they basically got bitched out and everyone from both groups yelled at them for being such starfishs.
It pissed me off though that they said all this stuff to me and they have the mind to say I have no respect.
So I'll take an opinion from you guys. I went out for my birthday and invited all of Jake and Jarrads close friends, including Jake's girlfriend and brother, and left Jake and Jarrad out of it all. Yet two week earlier they both lied to me and texted me multiple times saying nobody likes me and nobody wants me around.
Disrespectful for me to do or justified?