Douchebag Guys - A Rant

[Joeboy]

I suppose the idea is to build confidence, except not look like a prick while doing so. Then you have yet another good trait. Of course it is easier said than done, but it can certainly be done. Maybe practice a little. Not sure how considering I can't say much when it comes to confidence myself but you'll find a way.

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[Littledude]

you sounded really loving weird by calling him a young brute.

[Dimitry]

I'm just, going to step in here, hello.
I dated a girl, Crystal, from about September to December last year. I loved the stuff out of her, I cared for her, she seemed to care for me, but she had depression problems, she would sometimes cut herself, and stuff like that. When it got to be around the time for Christmas, she broke up with me, and I was pretty upset. I found out after a week, that while we were dating, she had love with another kid about 6 times in a week, if not more. All of my other friends, this is all they talk about is getting laid. I don't think that's the point of anything, that's what separates me from most guys, I'm not one of those 'love Douche bags.'

[Joeboy]

I'm just, going to step in here, hello.
I dated a girl, Crystal, from about September to December last year. I loved the stuff out of her, I cared for her, she seemed to care for me, but she had depression problems, she would sometimes cut herself, and stuff like that. When it got to be around the time for Christmas, she broke up with me, and I was pretty upset. I found out after a week, that while we were dating, she had love with another kid about 6 times in a week, if not more. All of my other friends, this is all they talk about is getting laid. I don't think that's the point of anything, that's what separates me from most guys, I'm not one of those 'love Douche bags.'

I find it kinda funny how I'm this nymphomaniac who thinks of love every other nanosecond yet I'm naturally compassionate and gentle and seek all the sentimental crap in a relationship and not just the steamy loving xD

[Dominator]

you sounded really loving weird by calling him a young brute.

Dat neck + nipples.

[No2mad2]

Cool, thanks for the feedback guys, I work on it.

[Visage]

if you are going to play the nice guy, then prepare to be single till your mid 20s till a single girl with a kid wants someone to pay her bills.

LOLLLLL

[Littledude]

the easy way to change what people think of you is to suddenly "not care" about any of them.

when people gossip to you about an alpha guy, you say "i dont give a stuff, unimportant"
          dont elaborate on why, because that just makes you look petty and butthurt.

when any girl casually speaks to you for any reason, do not jump at your teen-hormone-advantage to flirt and make yourself feel good for talking to girls. you talk back like they are one of the guys. keep it blunt and casual. like you dont even notice a chick is talking to you.
          this sparks a different attention level from not just her, but her friends as well. leads to more girls coming to you in the future.

the "dont care" attitude is a sign that you are to cool for XXXX person. that they have to earn your respect and they need to deserve your attention.

This pretty much describes me and I have gotten girls.
I legitimately do not care about anyone, and I talk to girls the same way I talk to guys. I just don't have that "pompous" attitude.

It really is all about confidence, which is one of the main reasons why bitches be riding the black richards.

[Pixel]

Bisjacs advice is always great. His not caring thing works every time ;)

Also if you just walk around like youre hot stuff everyone will treat you like hot stuff

[Uncle Bengs]

LOLLLLL

is that not the description of bisjac? :)

[Bisjac]

is that not the description of bisjac? :)

no ive had plenty dates and girlfriends lol.

plus i dont open the wallet for chicks

[Stocking]

the reason confidence is attractive is because girls want a guy who's in control. girls instinctively want a man that reminds them of their father, ie tall, strong, confident, and domineering. this is more or less the same reason that girls raised in fatherless homes grow up to be notorious sluts. without any kind of role model, they develop their taste in men by sleeping around and taking chances.

guys also want a girl that's like their mother. and i've noticed that guys that tend to hate their mothers tend to be romantically inept, almost the complete opposite of girls that hate theirs or dont have a dad.

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Dat neck + nipples.

that's loving disgusting...

[TheChaosCarrier]

Lol.
Basically bisjacs method got me the girl I have now.
She and I just hit two month mark two days ago.
Ours is actually committed tho.

Seriously though, all I'm seeing in the op is uber jelly.

[SPooK]

Is this the guy?

SCRATCH

He does look like a total cigarette.


Woops he lives in another country.

Anyways, my advice. Fight him, beat him, get your woman back. Or exploit as much of his flaws as you can in front of people.

[CoolKoopaTroopa]

I'm just, going to step in here, hello.
I dated a girl, Crystal, from about September to December last year. I loved the stuff out of her, I cared for her, she seemed to care for me, but she had depression problems, she would sometimes cut herself, and stuff like that. When it got to be around the time for Christmas, she broke up with me, and I was pretty upset. I found out after a week, that while we were dating, she had love with another kid about 6 times in a week, if not more. All of my other friends, this is all they talk about is getting laid. I don't think that's the point of anything, that's what separates me from most guys, I'm not one of those 'love Douche bags.'

so you're advice to this thread is that you got played?