how do you purposely not have love, ottoyou either want to or dont want to
but it can't be used as an abuse tacticagain, you dont ''refuse love'' you just don't want it
forcing someone to have love over and over is loveual harassment
why would you want your partner to feel bad if not because you are abusive lol
K guys this is "you laugh you loose" not "argue over what is abuse" for forgets sake stop