Yeah but I was trying to depict something avoidable. Don't go carpooling and you live to see another day; thus you'd probably have a hard time keeping it to yourself when you know that it could be avoided.
When I was thinking about which one I would pick, I considered clever ways to circumvent the "but no one will believe you" thing.
I decided that most of the ways I was thinking of would probably be covered by the incredibly ambiguous 'nerf' of it, e.g. writing a note from an anonymous source, not directly saying you could see the future and you foresaw something happening, cleverly using words, proving you can see the future by predicting something and then the skeptical person seeing it happen.
the totems need more elaboration