Author Topic: okay i need social stuff to do.  (Read 4368 times)

so my mom is angry at me because i have social anxiety and don't interact with people in real life enough. even though i don't see how my lack of friends can affect her in any way, i need stuff to do.

it has to be something that involves interacting with other people, preferrably my age, but nothing too major yet because i still have panic attacks when trying to say one word to people online through a microphone.

and no i will NOT go to school. don't even suggest that or i will grind your face into a rock and then toss you off a cliff.
SERIOUS RESPONSES ONLY. THIS IS A SERIOUS SITUATION.
« Last Edit: July 30, 2012, 11:58:22 AM by shyGriff »

Start a game of Manhunt with a bunch of friends or people from the neighborhood.

  • Gives you some much needed exercise
  • Gets you outside
  • Fun as balls

Go to a party where you don't know many people and bring your own alcohol. Social anxiety gone. Just don't overdo it.

Start a game of Manhunt with a bunch of friends or people from the neighborhood.

  • Gives you some much needed exercise
  • Gets you outside
  • Fun as balls
i already said i don't have any friends
also all the people in my neighborhood are way older than me

Go to a party where you don't know many people and bring your own alcohol. Social anxiety gone. Just don't overdo it.
is that even legal at my age

. even though i don't see how my lack of friends can affect her in any way, i need stuff to do.


maybe she doesn't want her son to be a loser? you should be glad your mom actually cares.

maybe she doesn't want her son to be a loser? you should be glad your mom actually cares.
daughter
and really i just want to stay home and not have to talk to people except for online
i mean yeah, it would be nice to have friends irl but it's not necessary
i'd rather not interact with people and not have friends than have dozens of panic attacks trying to get friends
but i don't really have a choice

is that even legal at my age

Idk, it's iffy, some places the legal age is N/A, others it's 19 or 21.
Either way.

daughter
and really i just want to stay home and not have to talk to people except for online
i mean yeah, it would be nice to have friends irl but it's not necessary
i'd rather not interact with people and not have friends than have dozens of panic attacks trying to get friends
but i don't really have a choice

You need to get outside and meet people. Like need to. You will get nowhere in the current world without knowing people.
You would truly be surprised at how much of a difference knowing the right people can make.

Idk, it's iffy, some places the legal age is N/A, others it's 19 or 21.
Either way.
well i'm not 19 or 21 or 18 so uh
yeah
also there are no parties around here, and especially none with people my age

If you have constant panic attacks when trying to make friends, then you should probably fix that first, as getting friends while having a panic attack is close to impossible.

If you have constant panic attacks when trying to make friends, then you should probably fix that first, as getting friends while having a panic attack is close to impossible.
that's the thing
i have social anxiety, which you can't just fix in an instant as far as i can tell
which is what causes me to have(small) panic attacks


procrastination!
that's not something that involves interacting with other human beings

go out for like 12 hours and see like 5 movies all day.

then come back saying you met some guys downtown that took you to their clubhouse. where you watched them conduct "business"
and they taught you how to play dice games.

then your mom will let you stay home forever

that's not something that involves interacting with other human beings

It could  :panda:

my friends are all on vacation so when my mom tells me to go do stuff with them i dont have to! ahahahah!!