I was kidding. Don't be hard on yourself. :(
I'm not being hard on myself, though
if I was self-conscious, then that's it. I would be self-conscious, and there'd be nothing I could do about it
I don't think it's being hard on yourself if you are. I think it's just you not realizing how cool you are.
being hard on yourself is when you say you're fat and ugly and will never achieve anything.
that or you're wanting more attention than you need