I could simulate that by removing my clothes and standing around. I'm probably not as hot as that guy would be, but the principle's the same.
Not love.
Just naked.
If I get naked in the shower am I having love?
If I tie my hands am I having love?
Ect ect?
BDSM =/= single bondage
BDSM is whipping and pseudo-rape
Still not exactly love.
From what I've heard from every damn thing love includes screwing someone in some way.
Even if it is with a strap on.