Right now I'm extremely angry so excuse any grammar or spelling mistakes. It seems I always pick the greatest friends who end up screwing me over in the end. My friends claims I'm overreacting, I think she is a bitch.
So I have this coworker that over the past 2 years she has become a close friend. We would always talk at work and could always cheer each other up. At some point I mentioned how I own an ATV and asked if at some point she wanted to come riding ATVs. She happily said yes. Though due to our busy schedules we haven't really planned anything until recently. A few days ago I asked her when she would like to ride the quad and she said "I'm pretty much good anytime".
So today I texted her asking if she wants to coming riding sometime this week. She replied that sounds good. But then, not more then a few hours later, tells me she "Isn't allowed" because her boyfriend that I didn't even know she had said no. I found this ridiculous and questioned her friendship. I had multiple occasions where friends have screwed me over so this made me extremely angry. She claims I'm overreacting. So I'm going to type up the entire texting log between us today, and let you guys decide who is right, note the times I provide to show how quickly her mood changes:
(6:34pm) Me: So do you want to try riding this week?
(6:41pm) Her: Yeah that sounds good.
Me: What days do you work
Her: It all varies
Me: You work morning shifts?
Her: Yeah
Me: Okay so you can ride after work?
---A few hour pass before her response----
(9:07pm) Her: If My boyfriend lets me
(9:08pm) Me: So what now you just can't
Her: What?
Me: We make plans to atv for awhile now and now you just can't go?
Her: This was awhile ago.
Me: What was?
Me: If you mean the atving plans, yeah, but Kristin, 3 hours ago you just said you were good to go?
Her: I could go but now my boyfriend said no
Me: So what, your not allowed to? Seriously?
Her: Yes
Me: That is absolutely ridiculous, I thought we were friends
Her: We were but im sorry i cant
Me: "we were". Cool, I see where we stand. Thanks Kristin
Her: Uhh ok?
Me: Glad you can just stop being friends with people THAT easily
Her: You blow this way out of proportion!
Me: You just said "we were friends". And besides, everything is cool but within a few hours it turns into a screw you?
Her: Wowwwwwww idk how you get all that! But ok Jon.
Me: I get it because you said it to me. I always talked about atving and you always seemed interested. But when I finally try to pick a day to go you suddenly can't?
Me: So what, now were aren't allowed to be friends because your boyfriend says we cant. And your just going to let that happen.
Her: Don't go making a fb status about me honestly Jon. Yes I said we could go awhile ago but now I have a boyfriend and he doesn't want me going with guys somewhere like that. Either you respect it or you dont but I do. You blew this way out of proportion I never said screw you and were not friends so you can stop that.
Her: He never said we couldn't be friends!!!!
Me: You just said you can go today, I recall you saying "im good anytime" a few days ago. Don't go saying it was awhile ago.
Her: That was before I asked my boyfriend. Im done talking about this. You blow this way out of proportion. Dont make statuses about me thanks.
Me: I thought you were my friend.
Her: I am! I dont know how your getting that im not.
Me: Whats the point if you can't even hang out, mad controlling
Her: Its not even like that Jon. But think what you want.
Me: Then whats it like. Enlighten me.
Her: He is my boyfriend and doesn't want me going. Where in that does it say we're not friends anymore? I don't see so I don't know how you do. Im not fightingwith you over this because you take it the wrong way and you just wont listen so whatever see it how you want to. I gtg
So what do you guys think? I tend to not listen to anybody when I'm angry so I could be overreacting. But I feel betrayed by somebody who I considered my friend. So I figured I get unbiased opinions.
