And if they get nukes, they will all be pointed at Israel and the US.
Not sure how well you know your geography, but the US is 5200 miles away from Iran. Iran is also a rational actor, it would not commit Self Delete just to attack Israel.
Women are more oppressed there than most other places in the Middle East.
Except for Pakistan, Afghanistan, Saudi Arabia, and Yemen. I don't even have to know just how bad (because they're not as bad as others) women's rights are in Iran just to realize that you're wrong. Please, where are you getting your facts from?