My humor and ways of showing affection or care are somewhat not-traditional.
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Yeah, if you stopped "showing affection" to shyGriff, I think that would make her like you more.
Revision: I agree with Block. I used to try to be super nice to everyone all of the time. But that just made me more tense, and so more likely to lash out on someone who doesn't deserve it. Now I strive less for niceness and more for being chill and relaxed. It works much better. The end result is similar, in that I'm rarely mean. So my advice is: be yourself, even if that's not always nice. Especially if you're naturally calm.