Author Topic: Serious Predicament: Advice Needed!  (Read 1083 times)

Note: This is long, but it's also interesting.

So, a while ago, me and my best friend got into a fight. She lied to me almost on a daily basis, and for the most part didn't care about me. Heck of a best friend. But, nonetheless, I cared enough to put that side. She was struggling with Depression, and to say the least, was a danger to herself. After months of me helping her out when she needed it, lying to counselors as she told me to, and being in a torturous friendship, Valentines Day came. I was in a horrible mood. I needed to vent, and that was fine. She kept trying to shine light into the situation. This didn't work to me, and eventually, she told me off. I didn't respond. An hour later, she sent me an apology song. Since this was about the 5th time she has done this, I said I was still upset. "Well I'm sorry that you can't accept my apology.". She then rubbed it in my face that she had someone to be with on Valentines Day, and said she had to go.

I texted her hours later to try to work it out. She said she didn't feel like being bothered by it, because she was having a good day. I snapped, and finally told her that she doesn't care, and that she never did. After that, she acted surprised, and said she had to go again. The next day, my number was blocked.

Time goes on, no communication. Eventually, we are both working an after-school event (we're both in the same club that works events). She acts like a prick to me at first, but then all of a sudden ~10 minutes later, we're almost best friends again. - After, no communication - >> This Year

I get a call down to one of our Assistant Principals Office today. I never break the rules, so I have no clear reason to be there. He eventually asks if so-and-so (my "friend") are having a fight, and need to be seperated (remember, this was almost a year ago). Confused as hell, I say no. It was resolved (so I thought). Apparently, the entire time, she was spreading gossip about how "horrible of a person I was", and how "horribly I treated her" (lie, for the record). One of her teachers found out about it and talked to the Principal about it.

So. WHAT THE forget. Some friend, huh? What should I do here? I'm going to ask said teacher tomorrow what he heard people saying about it. What should I do?!

Some people just have nothing better to do than try to cause others grief. In the long run their lack of respect for themselves and others will come back to bite them in the butt though.

Let them know that you've tried your hardest to be a good friend and that you're not going to even talk to them again unless absolutely necessary.

You should just stop talking to the lying little girl and grow a pair.  Who cares what others think if you separate yourself from the situation?

Push her on the ground and fart on her. She will realize who wears the pants in the relationship and stop bothering you.

Stick it in her pooper

Don't even TRY to talk to the girl anymore.

Thing is, I stopped talking to her in February. She is still telling people this crap for some reason. I know she didn't want it to get back to me. But it did.

Don't let the gossips get to you. Just don't give a forget to what others think.

Ignore her and never talk to her again.

why are you so stupid as to be friendly towards someone who doesn't respect you?

why are you so stupid as to be friendly towards someone who doesn't respect you?
Certain things you can't explain. I was under the illusion that she did.

Thing is, I stopped talking to her in February. She is still telling people this crap for some reason. I know she didn't want it to get back to me. But it did.
You could tell the truth to everyone she had you lie to


You could tell the truth to everyone she had you lie to
LOL

yes do this

why are you so stupid as to be friendly towards someone who doesn't respect you?

Kill them with kindness!