Author Topic: how do i not get mad at people  (Read 815 times)

ok so idk if this goes in gen. discussion or drama or what but help
whenever i host a server, someone stupid joins
i mean even more stupid than me
i mean the kind of person who tries walking between the gaps of a sign hung on a window which says "NOT A GATE" and then asks why the gate isn't working
so basically a bunch of annoying people join, i get annoyed at them, eventually i can't handle this level of stupidity and just flip and ban a bunch of people who didn't really need to be banned and then i end up alone in the server and people complain that i'm being a badmin and then i realize "what the heck self why did you ban so many people" and then i just get madder because i'm stupid aaaand yeah
to put it simply: people are annoying and i overreact
how do i stop overreacting so much

Ignore them, disable chat if you must.

« Last Edit: October 03, 2012, 06:12:28 PM by Electrk »

ok so idk if this goes in gen. discussion or drama or what but help
whenever i host a server, someone stupid joins
i mean even more stupid than me
i mean the kind of person who tries walking between the gaps of a sign hung on a window which says "NOT A GATE" and then asks why the gate isn't working
so basically a bunch of annoying people join, i get annoyed at them, eventually i can't handle this level of stupidity and just flip and ban a bunch of people who didn't really need to be banned and then i end up alone in the server and people complain that i'm being a badmin and then i realize "what the heck self why did you ban so many people" and then i just get madder because i'm stupid aaaand yeah
to put it simply: people are annoying and i overreact
how do i stop overreacting so much

Simple. Ignore.

Get Munks Admin Commands (I think thats it) and have fun with your mute command.
Shuts them up.

Find a hobby outside of BL for a while? I get in that state sometimes so I cool down by attempting to unicycle.

which just frustrates me even loving more!

Ban them immediately when they show a distinct lack of intelligence. Always perma, no discussion. Works for me.

Instead of taking your anger out on the other players, take it out on your monitor!

Or put the anger somewhere else idk


You will always find people like this. There is no avoiding it.
Your lucky people join your servers at all ;~;

Ban them immediately when they show a distinct lack of intelligence. Always perma, no discussion. Works for me.

What a wonderful person you are

Ban them immediately when they show a distinct lack of intelligence. Always perma, no discussion. Works for me.
then i just end up alone with 2 or 3 people calling me a badmin and then i ban them and then i'm completely alone though

are you hosting now

ill be a richard then you can work on muting, not banning me!

why would you scream into a pillow, whoever said to do that is DUMB, because then nobody can hear you! scream into a megaphone!

then i just end up alone with 2 or 3 people calling me a badmin and then i ban them and then i'm completely alone though
Not everyone, just the really terrible people. Like the ones who obviously can't read a large sign or don't want to spend the time to. If it's someone pestering you just ignore them, really. Let them play the game.