Joker Card has a Girlfriend

[RedGajin]

Love in High-school is for fun, not getting into anything serious.

ive had some pretty serious love idk what you're talking about

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[fred da kiko]

13*

I get relationship advice from my mom.

It's funny because your mom is one of those weird wolf special interestists.

[Dodger]

I have a girlfriend via internet, that's it D:

[SWAT One]

Love in High-school is for fun, not getting into anything serious.

Love is for serious, bro.  Love isn't simply entertainment :/

[Feep]

Love in High-school is for fun, not getting into anything serious.

 Couldn't agree more. I'll reply to swats post when I get home.

Love is for serious, bro.  Love isn't simply entertainment :/

So you have a problem with me hooking up with girls just for entertainment? that's still love, there are still feelings going between (unless i'm drunk which hasn't happened in a long time) I've had girlfriends and I have had no intention of being with them my entire life and knew it was just for entertainment.

You and Boltster are going on the assumption that girls just do that because they are.  She is quite the selfless person, and will do anything to continue this relationship, as I will do as well.

And excuse me?  Better girl?  How so?  It's her or nothing*.  If it doesn't work out, then I can't love anyone else in that way.  Both of us have a monogamous nature and take this relationship seriously.  We respect each other's boundaries.  I don't see it as a lustful relationship, but more of an "I love you because you're you."  I'm not in it for the ride (double-meaning, if you caught that), but just because we would like to spend our lives with each other.

Now this may sound like the typical "spoiled brat" scenario...  No, I just find myself incapable of loving anyone else.

There is no 'it's her or nothing' because that's bullstuff and you know it. Me and boltster are on the assumption because we've obviously been around more girls than you have (notice you don't need to date girls to learn about them). Anyway, I find it humorous that you know how much she 'loves' you yet you've only been dating like a month?

[Böltster]

It's her or nothing.  If it doesn't work out, then I can't love anyone else in that way.

haha oh my god this is precious

you're getting so swept up in your emotions. take a step back bud, you've been dating one month and you're planning your entire future around her. don't try and offer us love advice either, this is your first girlfriend and your bible isn't justification to try and school us on the subject

Love is for serious, bro.  Love isn't simply entertainment :/

hahahaha you've been dating ONE GIRL A MONTH man, seriously get your stuff together

[SWAT One]

So you have a problem with me hooking up with girls just for entertainment? that's still love, there are still feelings going between (unless i'm drunk which hasn't happened in a long time) I've had girlfriends and I have had no intention of being with them my entire life and knew it was just for entertainment.
Love =/= Lust.  That's lust, bro.  If you want to have a life-long companion, that's love.  If you just want an experience, you're just hungry for the experience that the individual offers, treating them as a stimulant.  Totally different story.

There is no 'it's her or nothing' because that's bullstuff and you know it. Me and boltster are on the assumption because we've obviously been around more girls than you have (notice you don't need to date girls to learn about them). Anyway, I find it humorous that you know how much she 'loves' you yet you've only been dating like a month?
Well, for one, it's October, and we've been dating since May, and your math must be clearly wrong to assume that that's 1 month.  Second, I don't think that a passive "lover" could accurately judge our feelings.

you're getting so swept up in your emotions. take a step back bud, you've been dating one month five months and you're planning your entire future around her. don't try and offer us love advice either, this is your first girlfriend and your bible isn't justification to try and school us on the subject  One, I did not say that I'm going to preach about the Bible.  You have clearly said yourself that you have read through the Bible yourself and rejected its ideas based on a personal decision- I cannot deny or change that in any way.  But it is weather or not you observed its doctrine and tried to practice it that will give you a more accurate scope on it.  It can be said to every experience.  One cannot know what swimming is like until he or she tries it, and the same can be said about following the teachings of the Bible.

hahahaha you've been dating ONE GIRL A MONTH What? 1^girl/_month? man, seriously get your stuff together  Is that supposed to be a rate, lol?

Likewise, I'd expect that you not assume that judging by your personal interpretations on an experience, that you tell me how to love.  I respect your beliefs, but now you're assuming that you're right because you had a broader scope of experiences.  However, the interpretation of emotions and events does not connect- We are both willing to power through this period, marry if possible, start a family, die old and happy.  I see nothing wrong with this fantasy, and the right and will to pursue it.  The odds might be against me, but that doesn't mean that I won't try.

Also, I say that we've declared that our work and educations were priorities.  For instance, she wants to become a veterinarian, and I want to become a film composer in LA.  Yes, those are difficult combos, but we've both looked ahead a bit and observed that it is not impossible at all to have this combination of jobs that work effectively together in certain city districts north of LA.

[Böltster]

you keep saying 5 months as a retort, so why did you say this the first time around?

She had no idea that I liked her.  And now that we got together this month,

and yeah i'm assuming i'm right because i've had a forgetton more experience than you have. here's a universal truth for you - there's a honeymoon stage of every relationship where everything is forgetin peachy and your body is pumped full of oxytocin and you're irrational as stuff. you're sitting right in that stage, so don't act like you know what you're doing because this is your first run and you don't lol

and i'm not trying to say you should call this whole thing off and give up or whatever. i'm saying, stop talking out of your ass when you're an absolute novice

[Clone v.117]

Swat your world is going to come crumbling down when she breaks up with you.
You are so overemotional about this whole thing, talking about how you are going to be together forever and whatnot, you need a good dose of reality my friend.
Not to mention claiming that Christians are capable of loving more than someone who isn't is just idiotic.

[?]

i saw the this topic had something to do with relationships, and i knew feep, boltster, and swat one would be pissing on eachother

[Böltster]

i saw the this topic had something to do with relationships, and i knew feep, boltster, and swat one would be pissing on eachother

how about you actually read through what has been said and contribute because there is actually a discussion going on here

[?]

how about you actually read through what has been said and contribute because there is actually a discussion going on here

no thanks i really dont like these types of arguments they make me sad :(

[Katadeus]

To return to the topic at hand, congratulations Joker Card. When I saw the first topic, I was already pretty sure that it would work out.

[Elecro]

It's funny because your mom is one of those weird wolf special interestists.

what the forget.

my mom likes wolves, what's wrong with that?

[fred da kiko]

what the forget.

my mom likes wolves, what's wrong with that?

In my experience, hard core wolf enthusiasts are not the best people to ask about relationship.