Family RP's might not all be failing, but it is a known problem that family RP's are not always well designed/monitored.
So people mostly suggest just avoiding them in the future.
The problem is that there are a lot of drama's about the same kind of servers.
And the problems mostly are the same, or at least seem to be the same.
So yeah, i can understand both sides, but i would say the same as the other people,
"You are going to a Family RP? Well, you should stop going there if you can't stand how they work because most of them work like that."