Kalphiter

[TeslaCoil]

How dare someone have confidence in himself!

Perhaps a little too much

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[IkeTheGeneric]

How dare someone have confidence in himself!

It's not just confidence, it's arrogance and being a stubborn dumbass

[Kalphiter]

Perhaps a little too much

Recently, admins have been banning me because I criticize something. It's false drama, just a bunch of insecure dorks.

[IkeTheGeneric]

Recently, admins have been banning me because I criticize something. It's false drama, just a bunch of insecure dorks.

Criticism != insulting the host and saying the server/build/admins suck

Nobody wants your snide or insulting remarks or your opinions because you can't say anything needs work without coming off as a huge stuff. Chances are that you're going to be banned if you insult the host and the admins, and bully the users.

The drama topic is completely valid because you're still being the same starfish you were two years ago.

[Rub]

Kalphiter criticising people making and releasing cool new servers is funny, he's never actually produced something of quality in his life.

[Destroyer]

I'm just going to add something in relation to Kalphiter's unwanted criticism. Seeing this actually really bothered me but it was locked before I could say something.

TheBlackParrot made a topic saying how he wanted to host a server on New Year's day for anybody who wanted to join. This server did not even interefere with Kalph's New years eve server, yet Kalph felt the need to come in his topic and post:

You'll get less than 25 people.

Why the forget do you need to be such a loving starfish? If he wants to try let him try. If it fails, I guess it fails but if he wants to try it no need to shoot down his hopes. Nobody wants to hear that negative bullstuff just because you think you are so loving awesome.

[Kalphiter]

It's not being a starfish, it's your twisted interpretation of my telling him turnout will not be great.

[Kalphiter]

How conveniant not to mention this post:

I know, I've done it before, that's why I said what I said about attendance. A party on that day is not really worth it.

[st8terblock]

I really have nothing against him but... after this....

[Destroyer]

It's not being a starfish, it's your twisted interpretation of my telling him turnout will not be great.

When you shoot down his idea in a mere sentence, that is coming off as an starfish. If you would have mentioned your past experience to begin with it would not have sounded bad at all. Saying "Hey I've tried this in the past and it did not turn out like I expected" is worlds away from going "Nobody will show up." One is helpful advice, the other is sounding like an ass.

How conveniant not to mention this post:

If he wants to try let him try. If it fails, I guess it fails, but if he wants to try it no need to shoot down his hopes.

[Kalphiter]

When you shoot down his idea in a mere sentence, that is coming off as an starfish. If you would have mentioned your past experience to begin with it would not have sounded bad at all. Saying "Hey I've tried this in the past and it did not turn out like I expected" is worlds away from going "Nobody will show up."

Good one, that's exactly what I did, but you're too quick to do some extra research because you're desperate to put stuff on me.

If I only posted that first post, I would be an starfish, or if I added that it was from past experiences, I would still be an starfish. Well forget, you're not giving me any choices.

[Destroyer]

Good one, that's exactly what I did, but you're too quick to do some extra research because you're desperate to put stuff on me.

If I only posted that first post, I would be an starfish, or if I added that it was from past experiences, I would still be an starfish. Well forget, you're not giving me any choices.

If you would have said right off the bat, your first post in that topic: "I've done something like this in the past, it didn't turn out as well as I thought. You're still welcome to try but it may not turn out like you think." That is helpful advice, its showing that you aren't completely shooting down his idea, but warning him it may not be as expected.

But since you host your New Year's server, you posting "It will get less then 25 people" immediately, without mentioning your past experiences, comes of as you shutting him down because he is doing an idea like yours.

[Kalphiter]

If you would have said right off the bat, your first post in that topic: "I've done something like this in the past, it didn't turn out as well as I thought. You're still welcome to try but it may not turn out like you think." That is helpful advice, its showing that you aren't completely shooting down his idea, but warning him it may not be as expected.

But since you host your New Year's server, you posting "It will get less then 25 people" immediately, without mentioning your past experiences, comes of as you shutting him down because he is doing an idea like yours.

So then what's your point?

[Bisjac]

if i hosted one it would see no less then 20 people at any time of day lol

[Destroyer]

So then what's your point?

That your first post in that topic made you sound like an starfish.