Author Topic: I can not talk to women effectively.  (Read 1861 times)

Forums, please help.

I am 14, a freshman in High school.
I suffer from depression. (It is not puberty, I have been diagnosed with depression for a while.)

Now the problem:
I cannot talk to women, BESIDES, women that are dating friends of mine. I do not know why I can talk to them, but I talk without any problems.
However women I want to talk to that are not dating friends of mine are the problem. Whenever I talk to them, after about 2 sentences/eye contact, my face gets red. I am pale (Irish heritage is part of this) and it is incredibly noticeable and obvious. I can not make friends that are girls and it bothers me because whenever I have friends that are girls, they seem to enjoy talking to me. I want to get rid of this because I am 90% this is making my depression worse.
 Any tips?

God Damon everyone has self diagnosed themselves with depression

point aside I couldn't help you.

God Damon everyone has self diagnosed themselves with depression

Wear a scarf at all times to cover your cheeks.

WOW

It's like you're a normal loving person!

WOW

It's like you're a normal loving person!

Regardless, I would like help.

You are on the wrong forum for this kind of help.

Just talk to them as if they're one of your friends, they don't bite or anything, there's nothing to blush about just because you're talking to someone.

Or you could try getting drunk then talking to them

Uh get over your fake depression and just be yourself

all my friends are loving girls and im a social WRECK whats wrong with u
Uh get over your fake depression and just be yourself
do this do this~~!!!!!!

your getting exited that your talking to girls, you get embarresed lool.

Just talk to them as if they're one of your friends, they don't bite or anything, there's nothing to blush about just because you're talking to someone.

Or you could try getting drunk then talking to them
I feel like I do this.
« Last Edit: January 09, 2013, 09:58:51 PM by Donro98 »

Pretend they're dating one of your friends.

Pretend they're dating one of your friends.
This might work, except for the fact that it does not work. I am not very good at tricking myself./

You're a freshman? Well, that's why.

Also, what is an woman?

Pics of yourself possibly?