Author Topic: there's this situation at school...  (Read 2363 times)

ok so let me start off with saying i feel terrible

so there's this girl at school [we'll call her anon for now] who's having a tough time coping with life. she went home sick today, puking, and her family can't support her and her sister, she practices violin in front of the schoolbuilding everyday and she's really good

so this other girl has been asking me out a lot lately, and i've recently found out that this girl has been bashing anon with comments like "bad musician" and "poor" and "fugly bitch"

ok first of all this is not acceptable in any context

second of all this girl has the nerve to loving ask me out after knowing she bullies this kid to hell.

i kind of like the bullied girl and i want to help her a lot.

you know what's even more sad? she wears this silver necklace that her grandmother gave her everyday. Her grandmother's dead.

so, what should I do? should i give her an anonymous present? should i yell at the bully? should i comfort anon?

please help i have no idea

gotta go to bed now, i'll answer questions tomorrow. i'll favorite this thread so i know to answer.

thanks guys i appreciate it.

Comfort anon and tell that other girl shes a richard

"Maybe if you stop bullying that girl, I'll go out with you."

Comfort anon and tell that other girl shes a richard

I'm going to yell at the bully tomorrow, and she's not going to bullstuff me

"Maybe if you stop bullying that girl, I'll go out with you."

this yes

how do you get the ladies and i don't? :(

how do you get the ladies and i don't? :(
because his testicle didnt get twisted  :cookieMonster:


"I'm sorry but I don't want to date a sadistic bimbo who most likely thinks that it's cool to insult someone, you forgetin' whore." Say this to that bitch. Or something less incredibly rude.

And you should totally ask out that girl who plays violin.

Just be a friend to anon, She may not even be looking for a relationship. She might just need a friend. be friendly, try hanging out with her, and let her know you like her, but don't be too pushy. and if it's apparent she wants to escalate with you, then great. if not, she still has a valuable friend.

as for the other girl, just tell her off, you don't want to be associated with people like her anyway.


As others have said, befriend anon, people like that usually want nothing more than a friend, but don't be pushy with it, don't assume she's weak, helpless and alone and try to strong-arm your way into a friendship with her under the assumption that she NEEDS a friend, that could make her feel like you only want to be her friend out of pity, such a hollow friendship would cause nothing but pain, even if it's only hollow because she perceives it as such, make sure you go about it naturally.
Also, don't do what others are saying regarding the huge bitch, with people like that the best way to deal with them is to, quite simply, ignore them completely, never look their way or respond at all no matter what they do, the worst that can happen is she'll go insane, chances are that she'll just get bored, though, and your friendship with the anon will probably ward the bullying away so you really won't have to do anything.

Also, a word of warning, if you do become friends with anon and she starts to show affection or becomes a little clingy, do not hastily mistake it for love, such a misjudgment could destroy your friendship and that would end up hurting her a lot in the long run if it turns out that she had no such intentions

Any chick who can play violin with skill deserves my attention.

Just be a friend to anon, She may not even be looking for a relationship. She might just need a friend. be friendly, try hanging out with her, and let her know you like her, but don't be too pushy. and if it's apparent she wants to escalate with you, then great. if not, she still has a valuable friend.

as for the other girl, just tell her off, you don't want to be associated with people like her anyway.
exactly what I was going to say.
Although, you don't necessarily have to hang out with her to be a good friend.
You could just talk to her a lot and let her express herself and open herself up to you.
I'm glad you posted this, OP.

Any chick who can play violin with skill deserves my attention.

Bonus points if she can play it like a fiddle, I love a good Irish jig

Bonus points if she can play it like a fiddle, I love a good Irish jig
Eargasms, man.