what do: girl edition

[Bravo]

so i don't know what to do here, its sort of complicated..

well i've known this girl for like 4 years, we met through the surf team at my middle school. we have this really weird relationship where we're like best friends but do stuff that normal best friends dont usually do like cuddle. the problem is, i've really liked her for about 2 years now but i haven't told her.  last year, she went away to boarding school, and she's coming back this weekend. i haven't seen her in 3 months. i'm not sure what to do, i'm afraid if i tell her how i feel we won't be friends anymore.

1 more problem: i hooked up with her friend the last time she was here, but i couldn't tell if she was mad or not. (dumb mistake) sometimes she says i'm hers and stuff, but i can't tell if she's joking.

side note: im not black

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[Denizen]

so i don't know what to do here, its sort of complicated..

well i've known this girl for like 4 years, we met through the surf team at my middle school. we have this really weird relationship where we're like best friends but do stuff that normal best friends dont usually do like cuddle. the problem is, i've really liked her for about 2 years now but i haven't told her.  last year, she went away to boarding school, and she's coming back this weekend. i haven't seen her in 3 months. i'm not sure what to do, i'm afraid if i tell her how i feel we won't be friends anymore.

1 more problem: i hooked up with her friend the last time she was here, but i couldn't tell if she was mad or not. (dumb mistake) sometimes she says i'm hers and stuff, but i can't tell if she's joking.

side note: im not black

spoiler alert: 100% of replies will be "just tell her"

[psychomutt]

tell her that you like her, and whatever happens happens.

[Bravo]

well im kinda confused because she thinks i like her friend now

[Denizen]

well im kinda confused because she thinks i like her friend now

she might be happy to find out that you don't

[Wheatley]

i would love to act like i can relate to this situation but i can't

spoiler alert: 100% of replies will be "just tell her"

I am here to prove you wrong

"flip a coin"

[psychomutt]

well im kinda confused because she thinks i like her friend now

how is that confusing? just tell her that you don't like her friend, and that you like her if that's the case

[Squideey]

wheee petty schoolyard relationships. On the importance scale they register at negative infinity

I guess my advice is to not even deal with it and have no interest in involving yourself with it

[Electrk]

Sabotage her surf board.

[Linkusofepica]

Creepy notes.

[Tømpson]

wheee petty schoolyard relationships. On the importance scale they register at negative infinity

I guess my advice is to not even deal with it and have no interest in involving yourself with it

Oh good, here is Mr. High and Mighty.
Relationships are not defined by age, that is really unspecific and generalized. You should think harder and try to listen to him instead of trying a one size fits all answer.

[patton360]

friendzoneeeeeeeee

[Clone v.117]

Best friends don't cuddle?
Then I guess I'm in serious relationships with like half the girls in my year?

I think you are over thinking that stuff, cuddling is nothing special bro.

[naturemon]

"flip a coin"

That awkward moment when I did that for a situation similar to this...

But really just tell her, if it messed up your friendship it's for the best, especially one like this. The last thing you want is to end up in love with her...assuming you don't already.

[Tudoreleuu]

flip a coin won't work
"ok heads is I'll tell her tails I won't
coin: heads
"uhhhh let's make that 2 out of 3"