Author Topic: Highschool girl stuff  (Read 5645 times)

Would you seriously date a girl with emotional-life trauma issues?
In fact, I do have a girlfriend like that. I support her, because it helps her.

What you are doing, is just being an starfish. You're not helping the girl, so this is why you're never going to grow as a couple.

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Misinformed bullstuff can be an opinion just like anything else. Most cases of depression are people wanting attention. Depression is a true medical condition, but I seriously doubt that this girl has any serious depression other than maybe she is doing bad in school or maybe her parent are divorcing.
"Woe is me"

I understand all of your viewpoints, but I still do not think I should peruse this any further because:
1: She already has a boyfriend
2: She's mad at me
3: As stated by Andy, "she is very sensitive because of some bad stuff that I'm not going to bring up"
« Last Edit: March 07, 2013, 07:10:22 PM by matthewbim11 »

Most cases of depression are people wanting attention.
really now
care to back that up or is it another one of your "opinions"

and obviously you know nothing about this girl ("maybe she is doing bad in school or maybe her parent are divorcing" - if you were even slightly familiar with her you would know whether both of these things were true), so why do you presume to know there isn't something seriously bad happening in her life?
« Last Edit: March 07, 2013, 07:10:25 PM by Fredulus »

Shes a loving girl what do you expect
They get sad when anything happens and they cry over literally everything
Plus it doesnt help that she's apparently friends with that one bitch

Pokemon - Oh yeah dude that stuff is classic, never gets old. Just seems to get better with age. Used to play it all the time as a kid.

Yu-Gi-Oh! - LOL WTF ARE YOU PLAYING THAT FOR IT'S 2013 YOU'RE IN HIGH SCHOOL GROW UP friend OMG THE GAME IS CLEARLY YOUR PROBLEM HERE.

What the hell is wrong with everyone?

I still do not think I should peruse this any further because:
1: She already has a boyfriend
2: She's mad at me
3: As stated by Andy, "she is very sensitive because of some bad stuff that I'm not going to bring up"

1: I'm a gigantic, insensitive starfish that would treat her horribly

really now
care to back that up or is it another one of your "opinions"

and obviously you know nothing about this girl ("maybe she is doing bad in school or maybe her parent are divorcing" - if you were even slightly familiar with her you would know whether both of these things were true), so why do you presume to know there isn't something seriously bad happening in her life?
I've know her for about 2-3 weeks now. Do you think a "majorly depressed person" would open up to a stranger with all their personal and forgeted problems?

Shes a loving girl what do you expect
I love stereotypes too!

Seriously, matthew, you are an ass. HER PARENTS MAY BE GETTING DIVORCED, I WOULD BE TAKING ANTI-DEPRESSANT PILLS TOO! If you were a true boyfriend, you would support her. Clearly, you are an starfish, and you will never find true love.

and your sperm will never carry on

I've know her for about 2-3 weeks now.
LOL
so yeah you don't know her at all

Do you think a "majorly depressed person" would open up to a stranger with all their personal and forgeted problems?
Yes. Some people in that situation will open up to anyone who will sit and listen long enough.

I've know her for about 2-3 weeks now. Do you think a "majorly depressed person" would open up to a stranger with all their personal and forgeted problems?
that's exactly what they need, someone to vent and talk to; to help them. I've helped many people who I was a 'stranger' to.

maybe her parent are divorcing.
"Woe is me"
and that is not a good reason to be in a terrible mood or depressed?

grow a heart, and a brain while you're at it, you ignorant bastard

Do you think a "majorly depressed person" would open up to a stranger with all their personal and forgeted problems?
it's called

caring

try it sometime

@ everyone.
I've talked to her almost every day since I met her- online, too. Not once has she EVER mentioned that she has problems outside of the normal first world stuff.

OP went from guy who is a little out of touch with society to a humongous douchebag in about a page.
loving incredible

forget you, I don't want to deal with that kind of stuff. Just too damn distracting and hard to get around.
trust me - a relationship with someone who's depressive/bipolar is not distracting or hard to get around, it's scary; they could just kill themselves one day


I have a very negative view towards people who are "depressed". Being depressed, in my opinion, is a bunch of attention drawing crap. Fix the problem causing the depression.
actually depression isn't easy to fix. it took me and her friend to solve this lady's problem, and it took us like, weeks to get her to loving tell someone.

you obviously don't know of the disorders depression are; bipolar depression is manic-depressive, and you could not even have a reason to be depressed, i mean you could be having the loving best day, but you'll be manic depressed, so you'll be depressed without reason; and you'll just kill yourself. i mean really.

@ everyone.
I've talked to her almost every day since I met her- online, too. Not once has she EVER mentioned that she has problems outside of the normal first world stuff.
of course she doesn't want to talk about her problems to you lol
1: she's only known you 2-3 weeks
2: you're the kind of starfish that gloats after winning a casual cardgame - not exactly the kind of person you want to open up to