i don't understand where all of the hatred is coming from?
op is far from tolerable yes but he has a point
when he is explaining, he generalizes it as
all gay people, rather than a few. And those may either be proud of who they are, going through a phase, enjoy what they are doing, or just their personality. And sometimes its none of those things. Sure there are gays that attract attention to themselves, but there are plenty of straight people who do the same thing. I think people are just getting angry at the generalization rather than his question.