Author Topic: My mother is going into surgery for a 3rd time.  (Read 2841 times)

Sadly, found out a couple months ago my mother has MS, never got to share it because it was pretty sad for me.
Anyway, not pleading for sympathy or anything.
She is going to go into surgery the 3rd time, her last surgery was in March 2012, her first surgery was in December 2007, I was kinda little at that time, and didn't know what was going on, she apparently forgeted up her spine in May 2006 while she was at Old navy where she worked.
Anyway, shes going to go into surgery a 3rd time in May 2013, shes going to test for therapy to see if that does anything, anyway, I'm kinda scared and need a little support on this, simply because my mother has been the person I have mostly loved all my life, and I have depended on, and I don't want to wake up one morning and go to see her at the hospital to find her dead, which won't happen since shes getting surgery, ect.
Reason for going into surgery?
Here, so on August 25, 2012, around 5 or 6PM, I was going with my mother to Aldi's because it was my sisters birthday, we we're driving around 40, a BP gas station was to our front right of us, so we are about to stop and some loving douchebag has to pull out of there with her kids and stuff, she probably was some loving cigarette anyway, anyway, she pulls out, and my mother hits the brakes, hard.
We don't stop in time, and BAM, we hit the car.
On my side in the passengers seat was where we got the most damage, surprisingly, I only had a little bruise and things, no serious injury.
But my mother got forgeted up bad, her neck snapped forward then back, (not like it broke like it was rushed forward then back).
Anyway, I'm litterally crying because I know what the forget's gonna happen then, shes gonna go through surgery a 3rd time.
She has MS.
That's to the point where I want to smash a rock in that person who collided with us in the head.
It's probably because what happened 8 months ago.
Anyway, I need some support on this, I want her to be fine and come out of surgery happy.
I will leave this topic up until after the surgery, when she gets out of the hospital and is fine, ect.
EDIT: Luckily after hitting the car, it was their fault.
:D


Aw, that's sad :( hope your mom is better
Tell her I said that.
« Last Edit: April 06, 2013, 04:14:15 AM by Executive »

Hope she doesn't die!

What a peculiar thing to say.

But my heart goes out to you Maxx and your mom. Hope she recovers soon.


Sadly, found out a couple months ago my mother has MS, never got to share it because it was pretty sad for me.
Anyway, not pleading for sympathy or anything.
She is going to go into surgery the 3rd time, her last surgery was in March 2012, her first surgery was in December 2007, I was kinda little at that time, and didn't know what was going on, she apparently forgeted up her spine in May 2006 while she was at Old navy where she worked.
Anyway, shes going to go into surgery a 3rd time in May 2013, shes going to test for therapy to see if that does anything, anyway, I'm kinda scared and need a little support on this, simply because my mother has been the person I have mostly loved all my life, and I have depended on, and I don't want to wake up one morning and go to see her at the hospital to find her dead, which won't happen since shes getting surgery, ect.
Reason for going into surgery?
Here, so on August 25, 2012, around 5 or 6PM, I was going with my mother to Aldi's because it was my sisters birthday, we we're driving around 40, a BP gas station was to our front right of us, so we are about to stop and some loving douchebag has to pull out of there with her kids and stuff, she probably was some loving cigarette anyway, anyway, she pulls out, and my mother hits the brakes, hard.
We don't stop in time, and BAM, we hit the car.
On my side in the passengers seat was where we got the most damage, surprisingly, I only had a little bruise and things, no serious injury.
But my mother got forgeted up bad, her neck snapped forward then back, (not like it broke like it was rushed forward then back).
Anyway, I'm litterally crying because I know what the forget's gonna happen then, shes gonna go through surgery a 3rd time.
She has MS.
That's to the point where I want to smash a rock in that person who collided with us in the head.
It's probably because what happened 8 months ago.
Anyway, I need some support on this, I want her to be fine and come out of surgery happy.
I will leave this topic up until after the surgery, when she gets out of the hospital and is fine, ect.
EDIT: Luckily after hitting the car, it was their fault.
:D

I feel bad for you, and all my condolences go to you and your mother, I know how she feels. My dads best friend has it. I have something similar to MS called Parkinson's (I have a variety of other muscular disorders too). Basically, it's when I can't control my movements, and you'll never see me for a second without twitching like crazy. My whole neurological system is horrible; including my motor skills. I write like a preschooler. I also have a severe case of Tourette's but I won't go into that.

wow, that really sucks.

hope she gets better

I feel bad for you, and all my condolences go to you and your mother, I know how she feels. My dads best friend has it. I have something similar to MS called Parkinson's (I have a variety of other muscular disorders too). Basically, it's when I can't control my movements, and you'll never see me for a second without twitching like crazy. My whole neurological system is horrible; including my motor skills. I write like a preschooler. I also have a severe case of Tourette's but I won't go into that.
stop quoting the entire OP.

Linkus: If you throw a tantrum because I quote the OP sometimes, please take some anger management courses.

Linkus: If you throw a tantrum because I quote the OP sometimes, please take some anger management courses.
That could be considered spam, and if it's directly related to the OP, don't even quote it.

How is it "spam"? I was just directing my post to the OP Maxx_.

Since you guys go Vietnam War on me when I quote something, I'll just reply without quoting.

That could be considered spam, and if it's directly related to the OP, don't even quote it.
Wow this is one situation where igloos isn't the handicapped one.

How is it "spam"? I was just directing my post to the OP Maxx_.

Since you guys go Vietnam War on me when I quote something, I'll just reply without quoting.
Quote only when you aren't directing it at everyone or the OP, and if you are gonna quote the OP, just snip it.

Quote only when you aren't directing it at everyone or the OP, and if you are gonna quote the OP, just snip it.

How would I snip a quote..?

That's awful man, hope she gets better pretty soon.

Also
Linkus: If you throw a tantrum because I quote the OP sometimes, please take some anger management courses.

What the heck man, people have told you dozens of times that it's stupid to quote the entire OP, yet you still do it. I have the feeling you are doing it on purpose to annoy us.

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