My mom just said I was a dissapointment

[Nickelob Ultra]

Sounds like your mom's a bitch.

[Ad Bot]

[Conservative]

the mother being a bad mother doesn't make shared custody any more fun
up until a couple of years ago, I was living at someone different's house, like, every six months. the only times I enjoyed it was when my dad was home, and could keep me (my mom couldn't keep me ever, but that's a different story)
the rest of it sucked

I probably shouldn't be giving advice then; I've never been in this type of situation.

[Jairo]

absolutely horrible dude
I hope everything turns out fine :c

[Night Fox]

I probably shouldn't be giving advice then; I've never been in this type of situation.

yeah

[Katadeus]

the mother being a bad mother doesn't make shared custody any more fun
up until a couple of years ago, I was living at someone different's house, like, every six months. the only times I enjoyed it was when my dad was home, and could keep me (my mom couldn't keep me ever, but that's a different story)
the rest of it sucked

I go back and forth and it's okay
It's just that I forget everything always

However, my parents are on very good terms considering that they are divorced. There was yelling and screaming, but only a couple of times, and they didn't have any major disagreements on splitting things up etc.

[The Big Bad Jellyfish]

A while ago, like last year something like this happened to my parents.
Except much more brutal.
My dad literally loving punched and pushed down my mother from rage, and the worst part is she has a bad back, and that can damage it more, I think they were fighting about how my father is lazy around the house and doesn't do stuff but sit at the couch watching TV, and doesn't sincerely love my mother. There was a lot of yelling and screaming that can be heard across the block, I'm surprised the cops didn't come.
My mother decided enough is enough and told him to get the forget out of the house, and she is usually a nice person who doesn't like doing that thing. Next day my dad went to work, then my mother putted a box of his stuff on the porch and bought new lock for the doors. My dad then left to his parents, then after a week my mother decided to call him and let him back in for whatever reason. Somehow they're still married today.

My advice is to keep quiet and try not to cry or get in the middle of it. Just ignore it, and act like normal around your parents when they're not fighting.

[Night Fox]

I go back and forth and it's okay
It's just that I forget everything always

your parents getting along fine probably helps. mine act like they do, but they're always talking about each other, and my mom gets angry anytime I mention wanting to go to/stay at my dad's or with his family instead of hers
and I have a sister and three (technically five) stepbrothers, which in some ways makes it worse (especially my sister)
the worst part about my situation is not getting to see my dad and stepmom and stepbrothers as much as I'd like, but that's not because of the shared custody

[Perlin Noise]

Tell your mom
A) that her mother is so disappointed in her that when she was born she cried because her abortion didn't work out.
B) if her mother is dead, tell her that she died hating her
C) tell her that you do love your dad more and you wish for him to take full custody of you
D) nothing. Punch her in the face and then cut her jugular and attach it to her neck where she will either A) choke to death or B) run out of blood.
E) she is a gold digging slut

it's yo choice brother

[The Big Bad Jellyfish]

D) nothing. Punch her in the face and then cut her jugular and attach it to her neck where she will either A) choke to death or B) run out of blood.

why would you kill your parent(s) for something like this lol

[Oasis]

Having experience in this field with my parent's 2 divorces each, I'd give you the advice I've had to live by.

Both your parents love you. They always will, and despite their mistakes, they will continue to want what is best for you. From what I can tell, your parents are having a hard time in their marriage, whether about money, personal issues, etc. If it doesn't blow over, I would recommend that they get a divorce simply to avoid these types of situations again. If they know it or not, they are hurting you by arguing and by causing you this much stress, and you'll feel this for the rest of your life.

Your dad seems to be the parent that you've clung on to, which is usual. I've found myself favoring my dad throughout my life, however, I love both my parents. Your mother is, understandably, incredibly hurt by this. Not only is her husband and the father of her child either pulling away or being pushed away from her, but now her own child is emotionally pulling away as-well. The extreme amounts of stress that this causes can be incredibly damaging to her self-esteem and her emotions, which because she is only human, may not be expressed in the best way possible.

My experience with divorce has caused me to grow up a bit faster than those I go to school with, and I hope what little information I could provide to you can give you a better understanding of how this all works. Show both your parents love, force them to sit down and talk about what is going to be best for you, whether their separation or counseling would be better. I really feel for ya, kid. I wish you the best.

[Oasis]

^^don't listen to him
do you even know things?
moving back and forth between houses is terrible

Less terrible than parents that verbally abuse each other.

I've had weekends at my mom's, weekdays and some weekends at my dad's since I was 3 years old. I have no real idea what living in one house for huge amounts of time is like, and yet I wouldn't hope for my parents to be married again.

[Freeze]

As much as you may hate your mum now, remember that sometimes in the heat of the moment people say things they don't really mean. Still, feel sorry for you, don't worry 'bout it though, you're not a bad person.

[Night Fox]

I've had weekends at my mom's, weekdays and some weekends at my dad's since I was 3 years old. I have no real idea what living in one house for huge amounts of time is like, and yet I wouldn't hope for my parents to be married again.

well. yeah. like, I didn't have any idea what having non-divorced parents was like, so it never bothered me. same for my mom being gone. but I guess if you have a set schedule, it would be better? idk. that hasn't been the case for me, it's always been seemingly random

[Clone v.117]

Remind your mother of how she wasted her life and has aspired to nothing.

[Katadeus]

Tell your mom
A) that her mother is so disappointed in her that when she was born she cried because her abortion didn't work out.
B) if her mother is dead, tell her that she died hating her
C) tell her that you do love your dad more and you wish for him to take full custody of you
D) nothing. Punch her in the face and then cut her jugular and attach it to her neck where she will either A) choke to death or B) run out of blood.
E) she is a gold digging slut

it's yo choice brother

no
eye for eye leaves whole world blind etc. etc.
not that we aren't blind already