Author Topic: I always feel so embarrassed going to parties.  (Read 1890 times)

It's like 1 big version of China with so many people standing around you not knowing most of the people at the party. Being a shy person, I cant relate well with people who I just met. Ever since I've been 3, I've never enjoyed parties.

Do you like them and look forward to going to them?

what kinda parties? family ones I usually don't go to.

if I'm at a real party and don't know anyone, I find a circle of some drinking game and invite myself in very quick.

I dislike all the parties to which I've been, but that's quite few.

what kinda parties? family ones I usually don't go to.

if I'm at a real party and don't know anyone, I find a circle of some drinking game and invite myself in very quick.

all parties, really
when im with my friend/friends i cant concentrate with so many people surrounding us, and the noise bothers me too

I've been to very few parties, as I'm quite shy around people I figure I'll be around more than once. (I believe this may just be me not wanting to make a stuffty impression and instead wanting to find the person's social boundaries first).

Oh, and my first prom is tomorrow. Hopefully I won't be that way...

I love parties, trust I always just levitate towards them. Especially when your well knowen and everyone loves you hahah.

I love parties, trust I always just levitate towards them. Especially when your well knowen and everyone loves you hahah.
You're probably not going to the same types of parties as Igloos.

all parties, really
when im with my friend/friends i cant concentrate with so many people surrounding us, and the noise bothers me too
Get hopelessly drunk, it's the only way to make it easier

give the girls a LOT of sugar

works like a charm

I am going to assume you aren't a the person to do this but nothing can fix a case of social anxiety better than a Xanax or two or maybe a little alcohol

the only good parties are the kind where you either hit on everyone or play vidya games with everyone
otherwise there's no merit to going

I am going to assume you aren't a the person to do this but nothing can fix a case of social anxiety better than a Xanax or two or maybe a little alcohol
stop giving advice forever

My solution works every time: Stop going to parties. I've been a much happier person since I had this epiphany.

I am going to assume you aren't a the person to do this but nothing can fix a case of social anxiety better than a Xanax or two or maybe a little alcohol
ok, alcohol is fine and all
but seriously? suggesting Xanax? something that's already illegal to use, and then you're suggesting it on a forum full of kids
don't do prescription drugs without a prescription, OP

parties don't have internet censorship

parties don't have internet censorship
what the forget are you even talking about