No, I guess I worded it poorly, though. Even if it's not flaming, it's an incredibly rude thing to do, which is really my point. I don't particularly care if something is against the rules or not, it's whether it's a jerktastic thing to do that matters to me.
EDIT: Besides which, many of those were in an argument, and flaming rules seem looser, there. This is out of the blue.