I've made some bad decisions in the past month or so

[AdinX]

Maybe she wants to break up with him but also needs someone to support her.
Just be honest with her jeese

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[RedGajin]

Maybe she wants to break up with him but also needs someone to support her.
Just be honest with her jeese

ive already said that this all already happened lol. its not like i made this thread too get help with my social life lol. and if she needed someone to support her, then she would of broke up with him first, not too mention she didnt even TELL me she had a bf.

[AdinX]

You and I are clearly not on the same wave length.
forget the past, focus on the future, that's what I'm trying to get you to understand.

If she needs a supporter, what makes you think breaking up beforehand is a good idea? Now that you told her off, she probably thinks you COMPLETELY have no interest in her. Her boyfriend wont be doing much supporting while he's busy in boot camp and then 4 years as a troop. I'm not saying you need to ask her out or grab her ass, just show some compassion man, when was the last time you even talked to her or knew she was alive?

[RedGajin]

You and I are clearly not on the same wave length.
forget the past, focus on the future, that's what I'm trying to get you to understand.

If she needs a supporter, what makes you think breaking up beforehand is a good idea? Now that you told her off, she probably thinks you COMPLETELY have no interest in her. Her boyfriend wont be doing much supporting while he's busy in boot camp and then 4 years as a troop. I'm not saying you need to ask her out or grab her ass, just show some compassion man, when was the last time you even talked to her or knew she was alive?

we really aren't on the same wavelength lol. reread the thread. first off, her bf wont be in the military because i specifically said that the bootcamp WASNT military in the op. and no, i dont have any interest in her, why would i? i mean sure i woould have been fine if we had just stayed friends, but shes obv mad at me (as i said before) for "breaking up" with her. you're acting like i forgeted her once, then totally humiliated her and made her feel like stuff. i didn't. at all. its not in any way my fault that she never told me she had a bf, thats all on her, im not going to go out of my wawy to beg her to not be mad at me lol.

[Oasis]

the problem is im not into her anymore because shes was low enough to cheat on her boyfriend

Ah.

Ok, now I understand what the problem was. What is it now? Just move on?

[Cakey]

like a girl
shy to talk to her
never dated anyone
not great around the ladies

generic loser stuff p much lmao

[Greek2me]

Ah.

Ok, now I understand what the problem was. What is it now? Just move on?

Only thing to do, really. He should at least try to be a friend to her though, since he said she's having a rough time. If he thinks she's serious then he should call somebody that could help her better. (family, etc)

like a girl
shy to talk to her
never dated anyone
not great around the ladies

generic loser stuff p much lmao

Stop thinking of yourself as a loser. That's half your problem.

[RedGajin]

Ah.

Ok, now I understand what the problem was. What is it now? Just move on?

thats what its always been.

like a girl
shy to talk to her
never dated anyone
not great around the ladies

generic loser stuff p much lmao

confidence goes a long way. honestly you should just talk to her anyways. who gives a forget if it doesnt work out, lifes pretty lame if you just sit around waiting for stuff to happen.

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adinx grow up

if a girl will cheat on her bf with you she'll cheat on you with the next guy

[DrenDran]

I wouldn't tell her jack stuff if she's suicidal. If she wants to cheat, YOU won't stop her, tough luck bud. But if you manage to make her feel BAD in the process of telling her not to cheat and she ends it all, and if the law makes a connection to you... It doesn't end well.

These 3 guys told a girl like 6 years ago to just killer herself
so she did
they've been in prison since then and will remain there for another 4 years.
I should say juvy, but it's really the same thing in my eyes

What a terrible law.
Id love to explain but im on my phone atm.

[Freeze]

Doesn't seem like you made any bad decisions man, nothing you said was your fault. How were you to know? Don't worry about it.