
I know that you guys are the only ones that are gonna see this but...The reason we don't shame people for driving cars is because car crashes are accidents, they can't just be expected or treated, but with obesity you can fix it before any damage is really done.
So we should just ignore them if they have serious health problems, even with a risk of their life going out at any time? I haven't ever heard of that logic. Sure, let's just let all of them get a heart attack sooner or later, none of our business!
And yes, you can tell if someone is healthy/unhealthy by looking at them. It's called caring.