After a few years, I find that nobody will really bother you if you treat people in on the internet the same way you would treat them in real life. I really wish more people would go by "if you wouldn't say it to their face, don't say it on the internet" just makes it a much nicer place.
I found my general experience here was a lot better when I decided to act the same way I do in real life and that is now how I act anywhere on the internet.