Wound, being a jerk doesn't make you cool, it just makes you an jerk. This wound's gotta learn how to be a respectful young man... you aren't coming off as an icy chill stoic badass by trying to make fun of people and brushing everyone off, you're just coming off as some nincompoop who doesn't learn from his mistakes and can't pick his battles...
My advice to you is to drop the gig and apologize to everyone, that way you can make amends with what you've done wrong, and you can put it behind you on your journey to improving your attitude and personality!
Just some criticism that I hope helps. You've put Boltster through a lot of distress these past few days, and I don't think he deserves this kind of nonsense.