Author Topic: Self Delete by Family, A Beautiful Wall of Text [Rant] (Read 1875 times)

IkeTheGeneric · June 28, 2013, 08:48:35 PM

I can relate to having family members who neither trust nor respect you in the smallest sense.

It's good to stand up for yourself, man. Just try to look at it from their angle, then you'll be able to reach some form of closure and or settle some bad blood.

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Night Fox · June 28, 2013, 08:53:26 PM

just behave
ignore your sister and brother
and your parents, when needed
that's what I do

AromaniaFTW · June 28, 2013, 08:53:46 PM

wait a second there's a plot hole
WHAT DID YOU SAY TO YOUR BROTHER
YOU DIDNT OWN HIM

naturemon · June 28, 2013, 09:01:08 PM

Quote from: Night Fox on June 28, 2013, 08:53:26 PM

just behave
ignore your sister and brother
and your parents, when needed
that's what I do

Seriously this, it's so ridiculously easy to avoid all of this!

I never understood how people had so many issues with simply tolerating their family.

Your brother picks on you? Okay, tell your parents. If they do nothing, call them out on it, calmly, don't start screaming your head off and expect an answer that's not exactly the same. Your sister butt in all of your conversations? Ignore her. Your mother and father don't seem all that bad, but you stated they have their own things that you didn't wish to discuss, well my parents did drugs, it's very difficult to see your father start freaking out hallucinating bees are swarming him and do nothing(if he went to jail, we were moving into a shelter as he was our provider and interventions didn't work), yet I still loved him just the same and wish he was still here today (cancer). So instead of whining about everything do things in a calm manner, get your point across and make things change.

EazyE · June 28, 2013, 09:08:10 PM

welcome to blogland

no but really my mom is a hypocrite too lol

Soukuw · June 28, 2013, 09:15:03 PM

Quote from: Sentry on June 28, 2013, 08:44:18 PM

I left out a lot that my parents did. Mostly because its personal and forgeted up.

Did they spank you?

Muslim · June 28, 2013, 09:16:31 PM

I get mad at my family but in the end they take me to moby concerts give me food and money

Teen angst

Elecro · June 28, 2013, 09:20:02 PM

i hate my sister too. all she loving does is start drama with people and she cries and stuff and asks why people don't like her or why people want to fight her. aside from that she's overweight, doesnt brush teeth, and sleeps in until like 9 pm because she stays up all loving night. she cried because she got fired. you know what i told her? i said maybe if you'd actually have gotten up in the morning like you're scheduled to, you'd have a job and have loving money.

Evan5626 · June 28, 2013, 09:25:18 PM

Quote from: Elecro on June 28, 2013, 09:20:02 PM

i hate my sister too. all she loving does is start drama with people and she cries and stuff and asks why people don't like her or why people want to fight her. aside from that she's overweight, doesnt brush teeth, and sleeps in until like 9 pm because she stays up all loving night. she cried because she got fired. you know what i told her? i said maybe if you'd actually have gotten up in the morning like you're scheduled to, you'd have a job and have loving money.

You shouldn't hate your sister for things as small as that.
Remember that, as idiotic as she may act; she's a human and has faults (You do as well.) People always expect everyone to be perfect when they themselves are no where near it.
I have family members that will pick on you for the smallest things such as watching a TV show that they don't like. Soon you learn to not tell them the things that you know they'll manipulate and learn to understand that that's just their personality. You cannot change that.

@OP, I know you have problems, but they are all you have for a family, and you're much luckier than many other people. It seems like people always look from issues from the negative side and don't bother to look at it from an optimistic standpoint.

devildogelite · June 28, 2013, 09:28:57 PM

I know this kind of stuff is annoying, but it's no where bad as you think. Maybe you should try to spend time away from them as much as possible. Go out and hang out with friends or do something that doesn't involve being inside.