Author Topic: Do any of these girls like me?  (Read 9139 times)

If he doesn't learn how to talk to girls before he hits highschool then he's going to have a problem.

I knew a lot of pretty girls in elementary school who I was afraid to talk to, and one I had a crush on. I'd get the shivers when I saw her and she liked me but I was too scared to talk to her. I'm now going into the 10th grade next week and I don't have a problem anymore because all of the girls at my school look like men, transvestite men, or horses.

If he doesn't learn how to talk to girls before he hits highschool then he's going to have a problem.
this
wtf lol

it's basic social skills, you dont need to 'learn' how to talk to girls, its kind of a natural thing
and no it isnt

don't ask her. you'll have to face the humiliation. don't post selfies. don't show your face. but you know about that ugly duck book, he turns into a beautiful swan.
that was a terrible joke

wtf lol
it's basic social skills, you dont need to 'learn' how to talk to girls, its kind of a natural thing
obviously not for xSetrox :cookieMonster:

Social skills aren't given to you at birth. That's why some people are socially awkward. You see it a lot in homeschooled kids, who haven't actually learned to socialize, they have a very hard time trying to make friends in public school. It's also got a lot to do with confidence, which is also something that some people suffer from.

and no it isnt

yeah it is, you either have social skills or you dont, you dont just wake up one day and switch from being an introvert to being an extrovert

obviously not for xSetrox :cookieMonster:

Social skills aren't given to you at birth. That's why some people are socially awkward. You see it a lot in homeschooled kids, who haven't actually learned to socialize, they have a very hard time trying to make friends in public school. It's also got a lot to do with confidence, which is also something that some people suffer from.
it isn't a gene, no, but they are long term skillsets, they are not easily changed and can take decades to change, and they still wont be perfect.

an introvert cannot just one day enjoy being an extrovert and have all the skills to be considered so

yeah it is, you either have social skills or you dont, you dont just wake up one day and switch from being an introvert to being an extrovert
it isn't a gene, no, but they are long term skillsets, they are not easily changed and can take decades to change, and they still wont be perfect.

an introvert cannot just one day enjoy being an extrovert and have all the skills to be considered so
you know, unless said introvert hangs out with people with similar interests and begins to open up

having social skills isn't genetic

you know, unless said introvert hangs out with people with similar interests and begins to open up

having social skills isn't genetic
the point is an introvert /wouldnt/ hang out with people or open up.

that ends your entire argument there

being an introvert doesn't have an effect on your social life.

the point is an introvert /wouldnt/ hang out with people or open up.

that ends your entire argument there
that's why said introvert works to achieve that kind of status

example: myself

yeah it is, you either have social skills or you dont, you dont just wake up one day and switch from being an introvert to being an extrovert
well its not something you're born with but it can be developed over time
because i was socially awkward my freshman year and it brought more attention my way, which forced me to deal with difficult social situations in a non-ridiculous matter, which inherently caused me to not be such an awkward friend

being an introvert doesn't have an effect on your social life.
lol ok

that's why said introvert works to achieve that kind of status

example: myself
okay, but being comfortable in those situations and to attempt to be an extrovert can take very long periods of time, classifying it as a long term characteristic


if you're as omega as op, it could take a very long time

but if you're just beta or gamma you could very easily just join a club or something

girls arent honest at any age.
but at least at roughly 18+, girls will make it clear what they think of you right away.

when younger, they will only react to a guy in the way she thinks nearby girls would. she cant be seen making an unpopular decision, regardless if she likes you or not.

please watch this series and educate yourself
i dont need to watch anything lol, being introverted is going to have an effect on your social life

always being inside and not enjoying being around people means you wont develop correct social skills, in turn making your social life crumble