Author Topic: Do any of these girls like me?  (Read 9168 times)

lmao if you refuse to educate yourself on a subject you lose the authority to argue it

introversion doesn't not inherently make you socially disabled or shy. It's literally just a preference.

always being inside and not enjoying being around people means you wont develop correct social skills, in turn making your social life crumble
This is a defensive mechanism that develops and is literally a direct effect of people like you attacking introverts for being 'inside' and being 'in their head too much'. It's called being 'shy'. Extroverts get it too.

This is all covered in the video lol. Introverts can go out to parties and socialize and have a great time but they just like having a bit of peace and quiet afterward.

Please educate yourself on a subject before you make an ass of yourself by saying all the wrong stuff.

lmao if you refuse to educate yourself on a subject you lose the authority to argue it

introversion doesn't not inherently make you socially disabled or shy. It's literally just a preference.
This is a defensive mechanism that develops and is literally a direct effect of people like you attacking introverts for being 'inside' and being 'in their head too much'. It's called being 'shy'. Extroverts get it too.

This is all covered in the video lol. Introverts can go out to parties and socialize and have a great time but they just like having a bit of peace and quiet afterward.

Please educate yourself on a subject before you make an ass of yourself by saying all the wrong stuff.
pretty sure i took psych 1 and psych 2, covering the topic of social skills and introversion and extroversion pretty heavily.

I never said introversion directly and inherently makes you socially awkward, I provided a logical event of orders that would indirectly lead introversion to social awkwardness

extroverts are and have been proven to be more socially active and comfortable in social situations, that is an unarguable fact, get over it

introverts have been proven to prefer a smaller scene, and prefer having a close group of friends, and not a large group of lesser well known friends, this means when meeting new people or being introduced to a new social scene they have not developed the skillsets to handle it in a normal way.

Stop arguing this, you're wrong, most likely you are introverted and are standing up for yourself because you want to feel like you aren't socially awkward, I get it, but just accept the fact that you are wrong.

A youtube series isn't going to change fact, shyness and social awkwardness and unawareness are two totally different things, one means you aren't comfortable in the situation and the other is not knowing how to correctly handle the situation.

does being comfortable have anything to do with actually functioning in said situations?

it's funny because vortex aka jazz is the one who had multiple accounts because he is incapable of functioning properly in a small community

pretty sure i took psych 1 and psych 2, covering the topic of social skills and introversion and extroversion pretty heavily.
ueagh. gross. why would you ever say that in an argument

yeah, I took AP Psych too, i bet you're a real genius

I never said introversion directly and inherently makes you socially awkward, I provided a logical event of orders that would indirectly lead introversion to social awkwardness
I'm not dumb lol it's very plain and obvious you were tying it to introversion.
being introverted is going to have an effect on your social life. always being inside and not enjoying being around people means you wont develop correct social skills, in turn making your social life crumble
Is basically what you said. The 'logical event of orders' you described was, in fact, being introverted.

extroverts are and have been proven to be more socially active and comfortable in social situations, that is an unarguable fact, get over it
Except for not at all. There are plenty of shy extroverts that don't like speaking out-loud, you just have to look for them, and not assume every shy person you meet is just an introvert who is inherently shy.

introverts have been proven to prefer a smaller scene, and prefer having a close group of friends, and not a large group of lesser well known friends, this means when meeting new people or being introduced to a new social scene they have not developed the skillsets to handle it in a normal way.
Introversion, again, has nothing to do with this. I'm an introvert. I'm very capable of introducing myself to a new social scene and making new friends in a completely normal way. Yeah, I prefer not to. I hate being in obnoxious social situations. Does that mean I'm shy and socially handicapped? Of course not. Your view is so myopic it's disgusting.

Stop arguing this, you're wrong, most likely you are introverted and are standing up for yourself because you want to feel like you aren't socially awkward, I get it, but just accept the fact that you are wrong.
lmao
good one but little kids typing stuff on the internet doesn't affect me. Yeah, I'm introverted and I'm probably more socially able than you are.

A youtube series isn't going to change fact, shyness and social awkwardness and unawareness are two totally different things, one means you aren't comfortable in the situation and the other is not knowing how to correctly handle the situation.
"A youtube series", more like a section cut out of a book that has been heavily researched and cited, a book that I have read twice. AKA something that has 10x the knowledge and authority on the subject as you do.

it's funny because vortex aka jazz is the one who had multiple accounts because he is incapable of functioning properly in a small community
Vortex is JazZ?

top loving kek. That explains everything.
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does being comfortable have anything to do with actually functioning in said situations?
shyness = comfortability
social awkwardness = unable to handle situation

it's funny because vortex aka jazz is the one who had multiple accounts because he is incapable of functioning properly in a small community

sorry that i get angry, i can actually function pretty decently when people aren't jamming stuff like this down my throat



ueagh. gross. why would you ever say that in an argument

yeah, I took AP Psych too, i bet you're a real genius
I'm not dumb lol it's very plain and obvious you were tying it to introversion. Is basically what you said. The 'logical event of orders' you described was, in fact, being introverted.
Except for not at all. There are plenty of shy extroverts that don't like speaking out-loud, you just have to look for them, and not assume every shy person you meet is just an introvert who is inherently shy.
Introversion, again, has nothing to do with this. I'm an introvert. I'm very capable of introducing myself to a new social scene and making new friends in a completely normal way. Yeah, I prefer not to. I hate being in obnoxious social situations. Does that mean I'm shy and socially handicapped? Of course not. Your view is so myopic it's disgusting.
lmao
good one but little kids typing stuff on the internet doesn't affect me. Yeah, I'm introverted and I'm probably more socially able than you are.
"A youtube series", more like a section cut out of a book that has been heavily researched and cited, a book that I have read twice. AKA something that has 10x the knowledge on the subject as you do.
Vortex is JazZ?

top loving kek. That explains everything.
just gonna bullet point my responses tied to each section of your responses

-you said if i wasnt educated that i couldnt argue, i therefore provided my eduction on the subject, youre the one who brought it up lmao

-or i was indirectly tying it, two different things bud

-dont know what you meant here

-maybe 1% of introverts and extroverts dont follow this path, thats the minority, so i have a right to state a larger portion follow what im saying

-lmao

-ok, call me a little kid, tots.  and youre definitely more socially able than i am, keep flattering yourself, lmao

-still not going to change fact, nor will i waste my time watching it

-ohoh thats so related to the subject you sound so cool cause youre so much better than me, i bow down sir


Also, another girl in class put her hands on my shoulders and said she would rather go out with me than another guy in class
"I'd rather go out with you."
"Do you think she wants to go out with me?"

Really OP?




Also, you're too young to date.

hahaha i like how you tie lmao on the end of every sentence to make it seem like you're not embarrassed af right now

-you said if i wasnt educated that i couldnt argue, i therefore provided my eduction on the subject, youre the one who brought it up lmao
yeah the way you were pulling stuff out of your ass made you look uneducated.

-or i was indirectly tying it, two different things bud
it's still literally the same thing. not sure what you're trying to accomplish here other than not look wrong

-dont know what you meant here
extroverts can be socially awkward, introverts can be outgoing

-maybe 1% of introverts and extroverts dont follow this path, thats the minority, so i have a right to state a larger portion follow what im saying
can't see the forest for the tree?

you act like it's a two way street and everyone is forced to take one or the other.

fyi i'd consider myself a slight introvert and i still have a healthy social life
that's what the video is saying
it's all just different ways to handle outside stimuli. nothing to do with how you choose to socialize.

it also calls out the world for viewing extroversion as ideal and introversion as a disease which is why i find JazZ's cute little psyc classes funny

hahaha i like how you tie lmao on the end of every sentence to make it seem like you're not embarrassed af right now
yeah the way you were pulling stuff out of your ass made you look uneducated.
it's still literally the same thing. not sure what you're trying to accomplish here other than not look wrong
extroverts can be socially awkward, introverts can be outgoing
can't see the forest for the tree?

you act like it's a two way street and everyone is forced to take one or the other.
that's what the video is saying
it's all just different ways to handle outside stimuli. nothing to do with how you choose to socialize.

it also calls out the world for viewing extroversion as ideal and introversion as a disease which is why i find JazZ's cute little psyc classes funny

-im not, i dont care about a 16 year old kid thinking he knows more than me, lmao, i find it funny that you think youre such a big boy because you think you know the difference between extroversion and introversion

-lol ok

-im not wrong, i dont need to look like anything lol

-a small percentage, sure

-didnt get the expression, and read above, no i dont, just the majority does

I'm not even sure how to respond to that. You don't even have a point anymore.

1st girl is just being nice. 2nd one you probably already messed up on by not doing anything. 3rd one is a possibility. In the end though if you actually want a girlfriend you have to not be afraid and wait until they say they like you. You have to go out and make a move first.

I'm not even sure how to respond to that. You don't even have a point anymore.
i do, youre just ignoring it and responding to other things in post by nitpicking it rather than reading it as a whole, so you tear the overall point apart without realizing it

most of the forums argues that way, theres no point in arguing with any of you for that reason itself

you're "whole argument" is basically "im right and you're wrong"

i mean, this is how the entire world argues. you make points and people refute them.

JazZ is like herpes, it never leaves and always burns despite anything you try to do.