Girl help again!!

[Nitro_Weavile]

Our group has a conversation on Facebook, and they all say, including "her" and she says girls wan guys to make the first move. Also, when I'm on BLF, I'm usually on my iPod so I can't upload :/

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[ResonKinetic]

AHAHAHA THAT IS THE MOST BETA THING IVE EVER HEARD

Okay one thing you should know; girls don't like to go after the guy who sits back. Why? Because that guy doesn't seem interesting. He's the guy who lays back and lets things just "work out" rather than being out there. The guy who actually goes for it (and isn't a completely spaghetti friend) will get laid 9/10 times more than lay back guy.

How do I know? Because when I was 14-15 I did just that. I sat back. All of the wantable chicks pass over you and you have to settle with beta-hunters. Recently I have observed that being straight forward, but not creepy, is the best way to go about things. Girls loving respond when you go out there and do stuff. If it doesn't work, don't keep trying. There's like a million chicks that you can play the moves on, don't hone in on that one.

disclaimer; no chick is ungettable. sometimes things just take time. subtlety works magic.

Hey, buddy, you missed the point.

The girls that you  have to pursue always end up being the ones that cheat on you, or forget around.

If the bitch is desirable and she knows it, there's a problem.

[Nitro_Weavile]

I don't feel like I'm pursuing as in a stalker vibe, it seems like she's almost saying "come to me"

[devildogelite]

Actually though, a majority of females today are vapid and shallow.

Just make several female friends and wait a couple years until the whores have grown up in some way, then you'll be able to date whoever it is when they're less likely to prostitute themselves cheat.

You sound like you're autistic as forget. This sounds like it could be a direct quote from some neckbeard that hates woman because they friendzoned him. Like holy stuff when I hear this my skin crawls from just how cringeworthy it is. Oh god it's just terrible.

If the bitch is desirable and she knows it, there's a problem.

Oh god my skin is crawling so hard. Please stop being so cringeworthy, please.


Back on topic. Have you ever actually hung out with this girl by yourselves? Because if the answer is no she probably isn't interested in you at all. Ask her to hang out and if she gives some wishy washy answer she doesn't want to go out with you. But I'm pretty sure she's not interested based on the fact that you've read into every little thing shes done so much, no real signs though.

[ResonKinetic]

You sound like you're autistic as forget. This sounds like it could be a direct quote from some neckbeard that hates woman because they friendzoned him. Like holy stuff when I hear this my skin crawls from just how cringeworthy it is. Oh god it's just terrible.

Bah, forget you're right.

I'll just stop again.

[IkeTheGeneric]

Actually though, a majority of females today are vapid and shallow.

Just make several female friends and wait a couple years until the whores have grown up in some way, then you'll be able to date whoever it is when they're less likely to prostitute themselves cheat.

How many women do you actually personally know?

[ResonKinetic]

How many women do you actually personally know?

Several, but I think my judgment is lacking today.

[IkeTheGeneric]

Several, but I think my judgment is lacking today.

I'll say. If anyone's the shallow one here, it's you :p

[Khorde]

If the bitch is desirable and she knows it, there's a problem.

So since I know I'm desirable, there's a problem? It's called self-worth. If you value yourself, then that means you're stable enough to value someone else. As long as you don't let it grow tremendously, you're good.

[ResonKinetic]

So since I know I'm desirable, there's a problem? It's called self-worth. If you value yourself, then that means you're stable enough to value someone else. As long as you don't let it grow tremendously, you're good.

I think that's what I was going for. A lot of people I've seen have had a really narcissistic attitude about themselves lately.

Nothing wrong with self-worth though.

[Vortex]

no amount of help people online give you is going to help you bud.

most people here havent had a real relationship with a girl, they're talking out of their ass.

if they have, their situation could be /totally/ different than yours as well.

it's better to just be you and be comfortable around whoever you like, if they like you back, eventually you'll both find out one way or another and stuff will work out.

dont rush things and dont ask for advice about things like this, you're just going to get a bunch of stuff that isnt really helpful for what you need it for

[DiceyGrammar]

The girls that you  have to pursue always end up being the ones that cheat on you, or forget around.

what a load of stuff

that just shows you personally have stuffty choice in girls, or can't satisfy them. not that pursuit leads to cheating

[Khorde]

I think that's what I was going for. A lot of people I've seen have had a really narcissistic attitude about themselves lately.

Nothing wrong with self-worth though.

well yes, ofc. But think about it like this; you don't want to date a girl who is putting herself down all the time. You want someone who knows they're attractive but it doesn't hurt to compliment her. Don't date girls who just fish.

[Nitro_Weavile]

here you go neck beards

[Yosher]

am i the only one who is disgusted by fake eyelashes
i really don't understand why people think they're beautiful