Author Topic: Do I deserve to be grounded?  (Read 12397 times)

A couple of weeks after school started, I was sitting in my room playing DayZ when my dad comes in after work all pissed off about how I haven't been studying, and how he's worried I'm going to "start off school in a hole that I can't dig myself out of", and then threatens me about grounding me. He says that I always do bad in math and that he knows I'm going to get stuff grades in Algebra 2 right off the bat. I check my grades online and see that I have an A+ on the assignment that we've done so far in the class, and I understand everything we're doing because it's all review. So I just forget about it and keep doing what I'm doing.

Two days later, we take a quiz in the class. I feel confident and not worried at all going into it because, like I said, I understood everything that we've been doing. Before I go on, however, you should know that I'm rather... Bad... At multiplication and division, so I use a calculator on almost every single operation that I do, even simple things like six times seven or such. Of course, when the teacher passes out the quizzes, he decides that we shouldn't be able to use a calculator because it's all "simple arithmetic" and "you should be embarrassed if you can't do it in your head". Well, after he says this I go into panic mode, and get stressed out because I know if I don't do well on this quiz then it's certain grounding for me. All through the quiz I literally cannot take my mind off of it. I feel like I did well, but in the back of my mind I know I completely bombed it.

The next week my dad asks me for my grades, so I jump online and print out the sheet, and yeah I failed the test getting nine out of twenty points and a 45%. I literally just sink and prepare myself for getting yelled at as usual. So yeah my dad throws his tantrum and stuff and he says I'm not ungrounded until I bring my grade up to a B.

So now, four weeks later, we've taken another quiz and a test. Of course, though, it's been almost two weeks since we took them but my teacher still hasn't put it in the grades. So now I'm stuck with this in the grades.


I have two A+'s in other classes and four B's. That is literally the only class I even have less than a B in. I've been grounded for like I said four weeks now and it's starting to piss me off.

I don't really do anything other than stuff on the computer and I don't want to so please don't be a richard in that sense because I don't really care what you have to say about what I like to do. All I want is peoples' opinion on whether or not I should be grounded.

Yep.

Everyone knows my opinion here: no.

However, study for your damn quizzes. 9/20 is just unacceptable, learn to school.

You shouldn't have been grounded for that long, maybe being told to put more study time in than yes.

Do you think you should have studied more to be more comfortable for that quiz?

Do you think you should have studied more to be more comfortable for that quiz?
Well, I was until my teacher said no calculators.

Calculators are my lifeline lol.

Well, I was until my teacher said no calculators.

Calculators are my lifeline lol.
...No offense, but you just can't rely on calculators. Just work it out on the quiz itself or on another piece of paper. Not meaning to be mean to you, but losing your cool over no calculators? Eh, that seems weird to me.

Not for 4 weeks, no. Assuming the OP isnt missing anything

Just a FYI, be prepared for a lot of those types of grades on quizzes in Algebra 2/Trig. It gets extremely difficult if you don't study at least an hour a day. Also be sure to do all of your homework in that class or you're forgeted. I'm serious. I took it junior year and learned the hard way 1st semester.

...No offense, but you just can't rely on calculators. Just work it out on the quiz itself or on another piece of paper. Not meaning to be mean to you, but losing your cool over no calculators? Eh, that seems weird to me.
Meh, teachers are always talking about how it's important to learn about "the real world", and I'm pretty sure in "the real world" you can whip out a calculator if you need it.

Just a FYI, be prepared for a lot of those types of grades on quizzes in Algebra 2/Trig. It gets extremely difficult if you don't study at least an hour a day. Also be sure to do all of your homework in that class or you're forgeted. I'm serious. I took it junior year and learned the hard way 1st semester.
Thanks.

Meh, teachers are always talking about how it's important to learn about "the real world", and I'm pretty sure in "the real world" you can whip out a calculator if you need it.
Thanks.
Uh, that's not a good method for life. You need to learn how to work out equations by yourself. You can't just rely on a couple of buttons and a processor.

I never got the whole "no calculator" thing in tests. I understand when you are little but its not like your going to not be allowed to use a calculator when you get a job that requires math. I can understand why your dad grounded you though. In his eyes he told you to specifically study for a test and now you went and failed it.

Meh, teachers are always talking about how it's important to learn about "the real world", and I'm pretty sure in "the real world" you can whip out a calculator if you need it.
Thanks.

Even the most basic cellphones you can get have a calculator. Also what grade are you in?

Actually, not using a calculator isn't hard. I can do it, its called a piece of paper and a pencil.

Uh, that's not a good method for life. You need to learn how to work out equations by yourself. You can't just rely on a couple of buttons and a processor.
Why? I'm pretty sure calculators are a standard on cell phones now and it's not like I don't know how to do it, I'm just not very good and make mistakes or miscount very easily.

Even the most basic cellphones you can get have a calculator. Also what grade are you in?
I'm a junior/11th grade

Why? I'm pretty sure calculators are a standard on cell phones now and it's not like I don't know how to do it, I'm just not very good and make mistakes or miscount very easily.
I'm a junior/11th grade
Do you know why you mess up? Cause you won't learn to do it without a calculator.
I do long equations without a calculator quite a bit.
And don't pull your grade on me either, I'm also a Junior.

Uh, that's not a good method for life. You need to learn how to work out equations by yourself. You can't just rely on a couple of buttons and a processor.
I completely disagree. I don't know how it was for you in elementary school, but teachers used to tell us all the time "You can't use a calculator because in the real world you're not going to carry a calculator around all the time." Suck my richard, teachers. Cell phones. If you've got a calculator, use it. I'm also god awful at arithmetic. It's like a disability I have, I have no idea why but I just suck so bad at basic arithmetic. He gave the example of 7*6, so for me to figure that out I'd literally count 7, 14, 21, 28, 35, then I don't know what 35+7 is so I'll literally count 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42. Granted, I'm so used to doing this that I can solve a problem like that in a few seconds, but it's still faster for me to type 7*6 into a calculator.