Why can't people realize what kids have to go through when they are bullied?
I've never really had a "bully" for a long period of time, but I must say, not every kid knows how to man up. It's a mental thing. Seriously, not every kid can be a hero, because bullies completely destroy their self-esteem. They feel helpless, and don't know what to do about it.
So overall, just give them a break. You don't know what it's like for them.