Author Topic: So my moms in jail again.  (Read 4238 times)

Just so y’all know, this topic is just a paragraph of my life story.
You don't have to read it if you don't want, I just wanted to get this out there.

So back in 2008, my mother wrote a few fraudulent checks and deposited them.
Apparently the government had declared in an audit even further back that she owned a very large sum of money in back taxes. She denies the legitimacy of these claims.
She ended up being arrested, charged with third-degree grand larceny, and felony possession of a forged instrument. According to one local newspaper, she stole about 8,500$.
My grandparents ended up reading about this, and were obviously quite upset.
All I remember is that my mom drove us to my grandparents house (only a minute away) and we sat in the backyard while they 'talked' with her.
She got off on a few years probation, and whether it was the courts or my family, she was required to attend a few alcoholics anonymous meetings.
Also, she drank pretty regularly, mostly vodka mixed in with soda.
She attended two meetings, then quit without telling anyone.

For a few years, things seemed more or less okay. My mother was on probation, however this didn't really affect our daily lives.
We were tight on money every now and then, but nothing we didn't get though.
Finally, in may of this year, a group of multiple armed federal agents storm the house.
I was away on a field trip, however my mother and sister were home and awakened by them.
Apparently my mother had attempted to steal over 87,000 dollars this time, writing fake checks that totaled more than three and a half million dollars.
The 87,000 is what she actually received, however.
She was charged with five counts of mail fraud, one count of obstructing internal revenue laws and three counts of making a false tax return.
She was released on bond, and after some more friction with the rest of the family (they found out, as she made the front page of at least one newspaper), things returned to normal.
Except that once she went to trial (albeit this could take years, as it's federal level) she'd be facing a few years in a federal prison, but that was 'later'.

Skip forward to last month or so.
One day the police show up at our door.
They're looking for me.
They have pictures of my bank statements and my drivers license.
They're asking me if I recognize a few checks deposited into my account.
At first I'm surprised and actually try to figure out if I do, however I realize I do not, and communicate this to the officer.
He leaves, telling me to have my mother call someone. (an investigate, if I remember correctly)
I quickly figure out what has happened.
I call my mother, and she confirms my belief.
She stole my debit card and license from my wallet while doing laundry and used it to cash fake checks in my name.
Luckily they knew it wasn't me, since she had pulled this kind of thing before, and I didn't get in serious trouble.
Unfortunately it didn't wrap up so easily this time.
Not only had she committed more crimes, but they also included violation of probation.
The next day, she insisted that I drive to university, with her in the trunk.
She started gathering food and water and pitched a tent 'somewhere', with plans to flee the police indefinitely.
She was going to depart on the day of her next probation hearing.
Due to a last minute call with her public defender, she never actually ended up fleeing, but up to an hour before she was completely serious and ready to leave.

The most recent occurrence isn't as severe however.
Apparently she had failed to register our two cars, my sister has one, and I have one. (they cannot be in her name legally)
She ends up being pulled over, while my sister is in the car.
She tries to force my sister to switch seats with her.
Luckily the police officer is at the window before they have a chance to switch.
The police officer tells them (to my sisters and my complete surprise) that the cars are not legal.
The following day, while driving in my car, she is pulled over again and arrested. (for driving without a license, and for driving a unregistered, non-insured car)
That car has been impounded, and my sisters car is now hidden in the garage, with the license plates stripped.
A family member has arranged to drop the plates off. (i think at the dmv, maybe the police, idk)
She is now in jail again. She might not be returning.

A quick google of her name returns these results, most of them are from the may 2013 incident, however:
http://www.justice.gov/usao/nyn/news/1857-3656-1645240704.pdf
http://historicnewspapers.guilpl.org/altamont-enterprise-2007-july-december/altamont-enterprise-2007-july-december%20-%200425.pdf
http://www.rotterdamny.info/m-1369927821/
http://www.dailygazette.com/news/2013/may/29/0529_irs/?print
http://empirestatenews.net/News/20130601-3.html

Here's a little gallery of pictures I took back in late 2012, these are pictures of her closet. The closent has since been cleaned:
http://postimg.org/gallery/6vyqas6g/55d8506a/

dayum

how are you holding up
« Last Edit: November 10, 2013, 01:30:05 PM by The Resonte! »

Your mother needs to seek help immediately and not leave until she's on the right track.

dayum

and seriously resonte. was that contributing anything to the topic at all?

Dude she tried to frame you.

and then wanted to switch seats with the sister so she wouldn't take the brunt of it.

Thats extremely lowball. I know she's your mom and maybe you're attached to her. But dude your mom is just terrible.


Dude she tried to frame you.

and then wanted to switch seats with the sister so she wouldn't take the brunt of it.

Thats extremely lowball. I know she's your mom and maybe you're attached to her. But dude your mom is just terrible.
I have no respect for her. I haven't in a long time. What you could call "love" is really just an appreciate of what she has done for me and my sister, (rasing us) which I admit is something.

For the record she got fired from her previous decent job (if i do recall it was 60-70k a year) for being arrested, and now works in the bakery of a local supermarket, for about 10$ an hour.

btw my dad, a cool guy, got divorced with my mom when I was 4, he payed child support but now that we're 18 he has no obligation to
they talk but he's mostly unaware of the situation, and we dont see any reason to change that

im moving on campus in febuary, but till then, I'm stuck here

Your mom's bonkers and you should cease contact with her until she sees the error of her ways.

EDIT:
For the record she got fired from her previous decent job (if i do recall it was 60-70k a year) for being arrested, and now works in the bakery of a local supermarket, for about 10$ an hour.
How wasn't she happy with 60-70k? That's a pretty good amount of money to make per year.
« Last Edit: November 10, 2013, 01:32:29 PM by Gatysh »

EDIT:How wasn't she happy with 60-70k? That's a pretty good amount of money to make per year.
she didn't quit
she got fired


so how're you feeling

she didn't quit
she got fired

For being arrested for her fake checks.

Damn dude that's some serious stuff. Good luck to you and your family.

she didn't quit
she got fired

No stuff? I was referring to the fact that she resorted to fraud to try to earn more money even though her job was pretty good job before her arrest and firing.

No stuff? I was referring to the fact that she resorted to fraud to try to earn more money even though her job was pretty good job before her arrest and firing.
you know that is a really good question

maybe she wanted more to drink

man, there's been a lot of crazy moms lately

Holy stuff
Sorry to hear that Dren

Good luck, my uncle was in jail once because he helped to murder someone(?) but it was never proven