I am going to start by saying, There wasn't a lot of truth to this thread. To start with she wasn't my ex. I had feelings for her since. forever really, but that doesn't give me the right to say that. second of all a lot of stuff happened just now about him and her that I don't want to get into. I meant for this thread to be a question just how to deal with it. then it turned into a joke. then it spiraled out of control. So everyone involved in this, I am sorry.