So you mean that in games like TF2 or Minecraft everyone should only play the game to shoot dudes or play survival
(respectively)? And that no one is allowed to trade, play on modded servers or play in creative mode
(respectively), or they defeat the purpose of the game and are friends? That is an extremely dumb and somewhat selfish point of view, since that also means you want everyone to play the game the same way you do.
But anyways, here is how to solve your problem in many ways:
- Don't play on minigame servers?
- Play on freebuild servers?
- Don't like the people on it? Play LAN with friends!
- Don't have any friends? Play singleplayer!
- Miss the people? Make your own server!
- Too lazy and instead expect other people to make servers suited for you just because you don't like any of the above options? Go forget yourself.