got it working
> ssh -X user@host
password/key login
> xterm
this will open xterm on your local computer (only for unix clients, I don't have a solution for windows clients - look into "x server for windows" or something) or alternately try VNC
inside xterm, cd to your blockland directory, then run the following:
wineconsole --backend=curses Blockland.exe [the key everyone knows] -dedicated
enter your key or whatever neccesary in that xterm window, it should authenticate successfully. then type quit(); in
back in the original SSH window that's still open, run the same command (from the right directory) and everything should work fantastically
i would ask if there are questions, but what we really need is people to try this with varying setups so we can condense this a bit