This is a game. Hate the player, but don't hate through the game.
Basically you are saying that America "helped" invade England because of a non-existent person. Sure, the player is the correlation of the leader, but that definitely does not warrant any girly "grudges" to translate from game to game and justify invasions.
DR:
Hate me; don't hate me by attacking the country I'm controlling, because it's a stupid move that only fedora-wearing hags use because they can't play a game without putting aside their bloody emotions, grudges, and differences.