The state of the hymen isn't a good sign for recognising virginity or not.
It can still remain after love in a perfect state, or appear in part, or no longer be present.
It can also be damaged or destroyed by disease or injury, procrastination and even if examined by a doctor.
It's not a good sign for finding if someone is a virgin or not, and no good Doctor should treat it as a sign of virginity or loss of virginity.
Furthermore, a Doctor should have a confidentiality with a patient, and whether the patient has had love or not is not the concern of the Doctor (bar legal reasons where they may be underage, but the procedure around that may vary on law).
There should be no reason to be worried that a Doctor will think you've had love.
